So I think she's probably absorbed something online relating to another jurisdiction where the definitions are not the same as here. Somehow it fits with her thinking so she believes it and says it with complete conviction.
IANAL, but I have a law degree and at least know the basics of criminal law.
It's amazing the number of well educated people you meet who think they've got an understanding of criminal law based on watching Law & Order and not realising that the American system is very different (and indeed differs between the federal system and the 50 states).
If she's spent much time in online trans spaces, where you get amateur internet lawyers from all around the world but mostly North America, she might be even more confused.
Really, in her job, what she should know about is employment law.