Off topic, but I was talking to a friend whose husband has done the characteristic middle-aged thing of shagging his workplace junior, with the excuse that 'I was going through a bad time in my life and you weren't there for me.'
My friend was coping with her mum dying, then her dad dying, then her child's diagnosis with something lifechanging, and menopause on top. His 'bad time' was a reorganisation at work. Why are some men such bloody wusses?