NC - you do know now that your prsenece in the CR was experienceed as a distressing violation of her privacy, because she told you so.
BU - yes
NC - And you stood your ground.
BU - when someoen makes confrotnation, compares you to a criminal, reasonable to try and defuse, make sure safe to exit situation, more appropriate to express my sorrow for her negative feelings, she should perhaps consider official channels, I was doing what I'd been advised to do, not a case she asked me to leave and I said no, I was trying to defuse a potentially [missed] situation