NC: can put qu again without ref to 1984
I can't recall foundation of objection.
J; wasn't the 1984' demand of C should submit by pretending you're a woman, you both knew to be false
NC - content wth that
BU - not demanding anything other than basic respect, nor her to submit to me, asking if she respects who I am, not forcing her to change her belief, asking basic level of respsect, dignity