Partner did something weird at a concert and I cant stop thinking about it

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So we went to see a famous DJ who does soul and funk. DP got REALLY into it. everyone was drunk and dancing and DP started dancing really close to the guy in front (who had back turned to dp and didn't seem to realise) and said "big fat penis". I was like "eh???" but he didnt answer me, just carried on dancing so I assumed I'd misheard but then he said it again and kept saying "Oh yeah" etc.

He's 41. The lad in front must have been early 20s or something. Been together about a year and a half. What do you reckon? just someone who gets really into music?

Ummmmm whit?

Was he on drugs?

What's penis got to do with dancing?

No he was just drunk

Do you think he was a bit out of it and getting aroused by the other Male h was dancing next to?

Ask him what was happening.

It depends. Was he saying he has a big fat penis? Or that the young man in front has a big fat penis?

Maybe he was trying to impress you with his stylish dancing & cock waggling .

how odd.

Errrm, has he ever done anything else to worry you? That does seem a bit strange... Not really sure how to respond to that. Did you ask him about it the next day? I would.

He was taking the piss out of the guy in front?

My bet is your DP did a sneaky half in the loos!

yeah he totally denies it. If it was just the once I'd assume I'd got it wrong but he did it twice, I heard him and then in between all the "oh yeah" and "come on!!!" chants and I'm like wtf

I cant recall any other time he's done something like this

sneaky half?

Perhaps he was angling to get some plastic surgery done on the NHS... Shimmying up behind random men in clubs and talking about penises might get your face rearranged.

Did he do any particular action to accompany the phrase? You know, like 'big fish little fish".

I talked to my best friend about it and she just cant get her head around it. Like someone on here has said, she asked if he was talking about his own big fat penis? as in did he have an erection? even so you wouldn't normally advertise that in public would you.

Sounds veeeery suspicious to me, sorry but I couldn't look at his the same again.

was he singing lyrics to the song playing? mishearing them?

How could you hear him so clearly on the dance floor? (I'm half deaf from gigs - they are usually very loud.)

"sneaky half" I think she means half an E

No it was defintely big fat penis, said twice to a funked up version of the BeeGees! It was an outside gig so not as intense sound wise as an indoor venue so I could just hear him over the music

isn't calling someone a "big fat penis" a bit like calling him a dickhead?

He most likely said 'Pass the peanuts'.

Oh yeah, pass the peanuts.

but he looked like he was getting turned on by the guy in front. I mean he was purposely dancing as close to him as possible and was staring at him when he said it. Poor guy in front didn't have a clue what was going on

'Big fat penis, oh yeah, come on', and dancing up close to a young lad?

And then denies all knowledge, even though you saw and heard it with your own eyes and ears?

Fuck that! I'd be off.

we can't really know - only you saw and heard him & you know what he is normally like.

But it does sound a lot like he had taken something he didn't share with you.

That's all kinds of wrong! I'd have left him and his 'big fat penis' to enjoy their night out together and quite possibly their life too! Grimy behaviour! and I'd probably have hurt him, if he'd done it to me or a friend