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Support thread for survivors of childhood sexual abuse PART 3

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CailinDana · 16/04/2012 17:38

The first two parts of this thread:
Part 1
Part 2

The purpose of these threads is to allow survivors of childhood sexual abuse, their partners, friends, or parents, to talk in a safe place about what they think and feel. Nothing is off limits or taboo, just say what you want to say.

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CailinDana · 17/04/2012 08:16

When did you find out about that dotty?

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dottyspotty2 · 17/04/2012 08:18

Local paper last night

CailinDana · 17/04/2012 08:20

What did you think when you saw it?

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dottyspotty2 · 17/04/2012 08:31

My mistake asked my son his last name and its different but the one I'm thinking of was charged with abusing a 4 year old boy over 4 monrhs earlier this year at 18 unusual first name very coinsidental makes me sick as someone who also went to same unit who is the same age as my eldest was release last year after serving his sentence for abusing a 8 year old boy when he was 16 he's now 21.

CailinDana · 17/04/2012 08:47

That must be upsetting dotty :(

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PlinkPaSta · 17/04/2012 08:49

Do you think there's an adult abuser at the center Dotty? just thinking there's something amiss there?

DontKnowWhatToDoAnymore · 17/04/2012 08:49

That's awful Dotty ((hugs))

DontKnowWhatToDoAnymore · 17/04/2012 08:49

That's awful Dotty ((hugs))

dottyspotty2 · 17/04/2012 08:57

God no the one I saw in paper last night hadn't attended was mixed up with very similar name, it was a unit for children with emotional and behavioral difficulties was better than nothing for DS these 2 particular boys where extreme cases was always something not right. They stopped going at 12 anyway but the staff there are outstanding.

CailinDana · 17/04/2012 09:01

I need a whinge.

It's Tuesday. I BLOODY HATE Tuesdays!
The house is a tip and I need to clean it but I just can't be bothered.
It's raining.
I have no milk so I haven't had any tea or coffee yet. This is not good. However I can't be bothered to go out and get milk, as it's raining. Tesco delivery will be coming in an hour or so with milk included. I can just about last an hour
It's bloody Tuesday.

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CailinDana · 17/04/2012 09:05

Oh and Plink, I should have owned up sooner and joined the Coffeahorlicks club Grin

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dottyspotty2 · 17/04/2012 09:08

Cailin I'm stuck in kitchen my floors are wet having my THIRD coffee of the day Grin sorry

DontKnowWhatToDoAnymore · 17/04/2012 09:11

I'm afraid I'm on the coffee already too.
Was just reading the posts from the last night, Cailin I'm in the north east too. There was me thinking you were all southerners.

DontKnowWhatToDoAnymore · 17/04/2012 09:11

I'm afraid I'm on the coffee already too.
Was just reading the posts from the last night, Cailin I'm in the north east too. There was me thinking you were all southerners.

CailinDana · 17/04/2012 09:11

Email me a coffee please dotty Grin

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CailinDana · 17/04/2012 09:12

I'm no southerner, I aint even English! I'm from Ireland originally.

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DontKnowWhatToDoAnymore · 17/04/2012 09:14

So where abouts in the north east are you (please tell me to mind my own bloody business if you'd rather not say)

DontKnowWhatToDoAnymore · 17/04/2012 09:14

So where abouts in the north east are you (please tell me to mind my own bloody business if you'd rather not say)

dottyspotty2 · 17/04/2012 09:16

whats with all the double posts Confused

CailinDana · 17/04/2012 09:19

Nottingham :) Where are you DontKnow?

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DontKnowWhatToDoAnymore · 17/04/2012 09:20

Sorry Dotty, it's my sodding phone, has a mind of its own Blush

DontKnowWhatToDoAnymore · 17/04/2012 09:20

Sorry Dotty, it's my sodding phone, has a mind of its own Blush

DontKnowWhatToDoAnymore · 17/04/2012 09:23

I'm in Newcastle Cailin.

DontKnowWhatToDoAnymore · 17/04/2012 09:23

I'm in Newcastle Cailin.

CailinDana · 17/04/2012 09:26

I'm more in the midlands than the north I suppose

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