Support thread for survivors of childhood sexual abuse PART 3

[CailinDana]

The first two parts of this thread:
Part 1
Part 2

The purpose of these threads is to allow survivors of childhood sexual abuse, their partners, friends, or parents, to talk in a safe place about what they think and feel. Nothing is off limits or taboo, just say what you want to say.

A Birthday Ode

Happy Birthday to Nhan
Two boys Mam
will be fine
With Elderflower
and abound
Piled high in a mound
No
or
Just and
For our pal Nhan

That's dead cute Plink :)

Hope you're having a lovely day NHAN.

Hehe, sneaky I is.

Just thought if today went naff for her it might make her laugh.

How are you feeling today Plink? I left a message for you on thread 2. How is everyone. Have a great day NHAN.

I'm having vegetarian for dinner (chick peas, broccoli and stir fried veg) today what are you all having

Evening everyone x
TheMistsOfAvalon, that sounds lovely, dd and I had frozen pizza just don't have the energy to cook today.

Evening everyone x
TheMistsOfAvalon, that sounds lovely, dd and I had frozen pizza just don't have the energy to cook today.

I had vegetarian too, home made tortillas, veggie burgers and bean burgers, salad etc, a feast!

Such a fast paced thread! Chasing my toddler all day stops me from keeping up!

Frozen pizza here too We're getting groceries delivered tomorrow so the cupboards are bare.

Avalon your post at the end of the last thread was lovely, I'm so glad posting here has helped you :) It has helped me a lot too.

I am very glad I have met you all :)

Thats ace plink :)

I left high school in 91 Dotty.I doubt catholic schools have changed much. We had a specialised` biology class, that was about it.

Ive witnessed weirdness around sex ed issues when I work at a youth club. We wanted to run body awarness sessions with the young people who attended. We had members of the community putting together a petition to stop these going ahead... It worked!!! The club was part of a bigger community centre & management said they couldnrt be seen to ignor concerns from other centre members, fuck what the kids might need. Eventually the youth work leader, my boss was sacked for allegedly handing out condoms to 16 year old, shock horror!! It was a really small town & the young people were too ashamed to buy from the chemist, the place theyd been getting calpol & ear drops & spot cream all their lives... so sad how are young people are let down.

If any good comes of the crap weve all had, I hope its that well raise a generation of kids who are self aware, see all humans as equals, emotionally mature, and hopefully never feel shame the way we have.

tinned soup
was very tasty though.

Aw Avalon, that made me happy cry, you are wonderful.

That void you talk about, which I've always had, is starting to heal because of you guys.

I saw my therapist today after a break as she was ill and she said "wow" you've got a sparkle back. I just told her I'd found online support and that you guys are amazing :o

We've had hot flatbread with brie and cranberry dipped in a yoghurt and mint sauce, so kind of pizza :o

We had chicken plait with chips getting back on plan tomorrow need to lose weight.

What is NHAM?

NHAN is one of the regular posters cphps.

Thank you Plink, that made me cry :)

Thanks for all the birthday messages, had a difficult, good, bad and very odd day.. and just been puked on by my baby, so normal day then! But I do have lots of new clothes and a gut full of pizza hut so happy me.

You've all made me feel very special :)
I will try to post later, got lots of crap going on here and not in a very good placeat the moment

Sorry to hear things are tough NHAN. Hope to see you around later.

Boooo NHAN got the Pizza Hut

Hope everything will be alright NHAN xx

hope you at least enjoyed your pizzahut NHAN

Hugs Nhan, mmm pizza hut

Avalon, flatbread is a thick tortilla, dry fry one, slice on brie, dollop on cranberry, add a second one on top, when bottom one is brown, flip it over til second one is brown. Plate and slice like a pizza. Other fillings I've tried are mozarella and basil or cheddar, leek and bacon. Sauce was in a bottle, from lidl.

plink sounds lush

Went shopping today usually have to be in and out as quick as possible took my time and came straight home another unusual thing normally need a drive to calm down still using my phone with music and headphones but a little step forward me thinks. x

argh I hate headphones too, well people speaking, find it too creepy, non vocal music is ok though.

Glad you had a better day Dotty.

Yup, heinz Tomato :) with grated cheese melted on top & proper butter on crusty bread. hhhhmmmmm.
It was a massive family tin on "ooops" for 50p Bargin :)
Those flat breads sound lush, adding that to next weeks menu, cheers plink.
good job weve already eaten otherwise id be jelous of NHAN`s pizza too.

Hope the rest of your day calms down a bit NHAN x

Haha Laminator, good cos I'm nicking the cheese and tomato soup :o