Orgasms - personal but am dying to know!

[daisiesinaline]

Another thread on here as reminded me of a burning question I have had for ages.

In a conversation with a girl friend of mine, she said that she orgasmed during penetrative sex. I don't. Only during foreplay. Are we doing something wrong?

What do other people experience?

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LOL wonder what inspired you to start this thread

TBH I dont feel hardly anything during penatrive sex!

I do know that only a small % of women experience orgasm through sex, the majority of those who have orgasms achieve them through cliteral stimulation.

I'm in the majority then. I hate foreplay. It annoys me. Would much rather get down to the real deal and always orgasm (unless I'm a little rushed IYKWIM)!!

I'm in the majority then. I hate foreplay. It annoys me. Would much rather get down to the real deal and always orgasm (unless I'm a little rushed IYKWIM)!!

Try reading Shere Hite, she did a huge survey and breaks the results down into mind-boggling detail exactly how women reach orgasm. There are some very unusual methods out there...

Oops! Not trying to take over the thread. Actually sneezed mid post and double-clicked!

I think climax during penetrative sex without any manipulation of the clitoris is pretty rare, TBH.

I only orgasm through clitoral stimulation, so there has to be a 'helping hand' during penetrative sex for me to achieve it.

I can, but only in just the right position.

foreplay annoys you?
sorry to state the obvious but is he doing it quite right??

Yes he is. And would love to do more of it. I get too excited too quickly and then it becomes almost painful. Penetrative sex is perfect for me.

Sex is boring, boring boring!

gosh. fancy that.
[HC lost for words]

I sort of get where she's coming from... I can't have too much foreplay - just enough to get me worked up, but if it happens during foreplay then the rest hurts... so foreplay, sex, then finish me

I share waaaaaaaaaaaaay too much on here

I can orgasm during sex...... but most of the time I'm well satisfied during foreplay before we get right down to it!!!!!

rofl, FR !

PMSL Flamerobin @ 'finish me off'!! Thats such a good way to describe it though.

I also orgasm during penetrative sex, but as FlameRobin said it has to be the right position!

yes well tell us about this "right position" please
[hc pulls up a chair and makes herself a cup of tea]

Oh erm..... I have to go out!

Back later!

my bet is on doggy - goes deep and presses on the frontal wall where the fabled g-spot is meant to be. Am I right ?

hc is that the right position (on a chair with a cup of tea) heck I've got a lot to learn

oh well that's just like sex isn't it?
just when it gets interesting one of you has to go to the shops
Flamerobin - more on this "right position" pls

I can't beleive I have to go and get lunch ready now!!

surely not doggy
i would have bet on a man on top one where he is shuffled all the way up so that there is pressure in the right place
but what do I know?
(let's come back to the G spot)

the best position I have found for me is:

Sitting on the sofa with your bum hanging off the edge of the seat, he puts his hands on your knees and usesthem to lift himself up and down. Closest I have ever got to an orgasm - shame it wasnt with dh grrrr

(dont jump on me - it was pre dh! )