Orgasms - personal but am dying to know!

[daisiesinaline]

Another thread on here as reminded me of a burning question I have had for ages.

In a conversation with a girl friend of mine, she said that she orgasmed during penetrative sex. I don't. Only during foreplay. Are we doing something wrong?

What do other people experience?

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HC - PMSL at penis hedge but so right! Have to say it is quite difficult to get in right position at the moment as 30 wks PG
Agree with NDP description of differences between VO & CO - spot on.

Wow JG !

I like to be in the position of sitting on Dh's lap and facing him. And also prefer a 'quickie' much more intense and gets your heart rate going. Good at burning calories too!

I am going to have to flounce cause i am so at you lots getting orgasms left right and centre!! All im asking for is 1 damm it grrrrrrrr

Tell ya what... shall I get drunk tonight, and see what happens??? Purely in the interest of science of course....

The giant bump might make things harder though... (not in that way!!!)

well I dont really know you! Probably a godd job acually!

I dont think Ive ever told anyone else ever!

I will never be able to attend a MN meetup unless I go in disguise!

We have had orgasms together, yes. Usually with me sitting on Dh's lap on end of bed or chair. Very nice indeed.

A good job that was obviously meant to say!

I've forgotten what a quickie's like

Tamba - the idea of em left right and centre all sounds far too much for me... you'd be all over the place!!!

I found I would orgasm much earlier and harder when I was pg

I think there has only been a couple of occasions when we have orgasmed together (very very nice!)

Usually its dh first but it has been known for me to come in first (so to speak!)

Anyone had simultaneous vaginal??? I'm intrigued by the idea of that... is it like the holy grail??

Orgasms were much better and much more intense when pg for me too. I was wanting sex every day in last few weeks, I was a raging sex monster! DH didnt mind.

Flame robin, yes I have had this, it is amazing. And boy do you sleep well after that.

Veering off - since you were gettin all these lovely orgasms late in pregnancy... which position should I be in?

would you be refering to the second trimester Horn?

Incredible isn't it, Dh had to keep me back with a big stick. all over by wekk 30 though.

pmsl - the due in Feb thread has listed orgasms as a means of getting back to sleep in the middle of the night after waking for loo/heartburn

Yes I have experienced that FlameRobin!

Words can't explain but tis very nice!

So.... help me out here - 32 weeks, sex drive suddenly reappeared, positions?

Flamerobin, try spoons or sitting on top.

from behind or you lying on your side, since you ask, or hands and knees so you can control the depth of thr(sting

Thankyou. Seemed easier to ask than to experiment . I can't believe that I am actually that lazy!!!

Can I just add that when I was pg with dd I always woke through the night..... and an orgasm was the ONLY way I could get back to sleep.... well its better than a crossword or a cup of hot milk!

One of my very good friends hadn't had an orgasm until she met her second husband at the age of 34

she now can have both a vaginal and clitoral one at once if they do it doggy style and he [ahem] reaches round with his hand.

Whether or not he manages at the smae time as well has never been shared!!

I'm more likely to achieve the goal with a quickie too. I don't like long slow build ups as I find myself wondering whether what I'll need from the supermarket. If it's really long I find myself hamming it up to bring things to a more swift conclusion for him.

"hamming it up"???????