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Orgasms - personal but am dying to know!

192 replies

daisiesinaline · 30/12/2005 12:00

Another thread on here as reminded me of a burning question I have had for ages.

In a conversation with a girl friend of mine, she said that she orgasmed during penetrative sex. I don't. Only during foreplay. Are we doing something wrong?

What do other people experience?


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JenumGeranium · 30/12/2005 13:13

Has everyone gone off for a quickie?

lilibet · 30/12/2005 13:14

I'm at work, no chance of a bloody quickie here!

Mincepiedermama · 30/12/2005 13:14

You know lilitbet ...
'Oh yes. Yes! Ah Yes! Mmmm!' etc etc whilst thinking, 'Waitrose at ten then nip round to Robert Dyas whilst in the Waitrose car park leaving me time to ...'
Don't you?

SackAche · 30/12/2005 13:15

Me too Lilibet!

JenumGeranium · 30/12/2005 13:15

Dont you have a stationary cupboard? lol

Guess you need your man there too!

FlameRobin · 30/12/2005 13:15

Nah, got a cold, and DD is very very awake... Maybe later though!

NomDePlume · 30/12/2005 13:15

DH is upstairs on the PC, I'm downstairs on the laptop. No danger of a spontaneous rutt in my house atm

Mincepiedermama · 30/12/2005 13:16

I had it twice last night.
Rather rare around these parts. Too much Baileys I think. Finishing off the Christmas supply can lead to fruity thoughts.
(Must put Baileys on the shopping list.)

FlameRobin · 30/12/2005 13:16

you could send him some suggestive emails??? See how long it takes for him to come down and investigate

lilibet · 30/12/2005 13:17

He usually is here but he's at home with the ds's today

And our stationary cupboard ahs very large windows!

FlameRobin · 30/12/2005 13:17

Mmmmmmmmmmmm Baileys........... I really want Baileys now (moreso than the quickie )

daisiesinaline · 30/12/2005 13:19

I'm back with my toastie sarnie and cup of tea. Kids SHHHH. Mamma is busy learning new tricks.

Oh feel really at VO being more intense than CO. Feel like I am missing out now. We have tried different positions etc to get VO but no luck. Damn. And as for sex during pregnancy... DH wouldn't even touch me. even though I was rampant with hormones!!!

This thread is very entertaining! Guess what all the mumnetters will be doing tonight. All the DH/DP will think its Xmas all over again! Will MN will quiet this evening!??

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NomDePlume · 30/12/2005 13:19

FR, DD is sat next to me on the sofa and the DSs are upstairs, one is in the room with DH. Perhaps not....

daisiesinaline · 30/12/2005 13:23

OK then, Another question. Bigger the willy, more chance of/better VO??

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Mincepiedermama · 30/12/2005 13:24

Right. Baileys is on the shopping list now.
I'm off for a bit. This thread has even inspired me to put on some make up for my visit to the soft paly area. I'll spend the rest of the day preparing for this evening.

Great thread.

Mincepiedermama · 30/12/2005 13:24

Just before I go ...IME think bigger the willy more manouvering necessary to avoid pain.

sevensuzyswongsaswimming · 30/12/2005 13:25

no daisy

JenumGeranium · 30/12/2005 13:27

I agree! I dont think size matters that much really!

My dh has an average size (I guess!) and I have no complaints!

tamba · 30/12/2005 13:32

my dh just westled me for the mouse cause he saw people talking about big willies I won though

JenumGeranium · 30/12/2005 13:33

I dont think i'd know what to do with a big one!

kitegirl · 30/12/2005 13:52

so the 'correct position' for VO was...? I'd like a few alternatives to try with dh tonight, I intend to finish last of the Christmas wine when ds goes to bed.

ElfBert · 30/12/2005 13:55

Ugh all this talk of "size" - just reminded me of that "secret bodies" program my friend was telling me about (I only saw one of those - it was most amusing though)... She said this bloke and his very bimbo looking GF were talking about what a huge donger he had - he could FILL A PINT GLASS WITH IT (it was his party trick - niiiiiice)... A PINT OF PENIS... Gah! Think I would run a bleedin' mile. However, bimbette had to say "Well, I've never had a problem with it - esp. anally!" yeuch yeuch... TMI!!!! I mean, each to their own, but WHY divulge that to a camera crew and several thousand viewers, AND did she not realise she is admitting to having a bottom like a flowerpot....

RudolphsAuntMabel · 30/12/2005 14:07

hang on! do you mean it was actually wide enough to fill the glass as well as just reach the bottom?

RudolphsAuntMabel · 30/12/2005 14:08

I mean bottom of the glass.....not any other bottoms..

sevensuzyswongsaswimming · 30/12/2005 14:11

SPRAY@ arse like a flower pot!!!!

IKWYM why on earth do people go on camera and say this? Egotism or stupidity?

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