Orgasms - personal but am dying to know!

[daisiesinaline]

Another thread on here as reminded me of a burning question I have had for ages.

In a conversation with a girl friend of mine, she said that she orgasmed during penetrative sex. I don't. Only during foreplay. Are we doing something wrong?

What do other people experience?

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But its so nice to warm each other up and snuggle under the duvet when its cold!

PMSL!

What if your stalkers are reading this ladies?

Or your mum?

Or your gran?

Or...your boss..?!

Fastasleep - why do you think I've not contributed?

Dh is obsessed with trying to get me to O when he is inside. I think it is physically impossible and anyway, perfectly nice to have it as part of the foreplay, but he is convinced we aren't "doing it right"!

Interested to read other Mners opinions...

Shall I tell you all the tale of when I banged on about the milkbank lady who comes round to my house and then not only did she see but also the two women who work at the milkbank...

Threads like this could have incredibly funny consequences!

tell!

No it was boring really.. lol! But worth mentioning to all you loose fingered women! (I mean in the typing out your secrets sense, of course)

Spill.

Seriously it was boring... I only mentioned that a) the lady was nice and b) why the hell were they stupidly not advertising the place as even my horrible HV didn't know you could donate milk to anywhere (who I later found out reads this too! ARGH!)

after they admitted seeing the thread a strange series of radio adverts for the milkbank starting cropping up!

Hello HV by the way I think you're horrible in the nicest possible way...

i heard the more you try to orgasm the easier it becomes.

i have no prob vo or co and do both simultaniously. there i think i'll put that on the proud thread

show off

i can juggle too. - but not at the same time

and when you are about to make it, tighten up the muscles in your legs and buttocks. WOW!

custy, with our without your fanny????

I can only VO if I completely let myself go. Which I find really hard to do!

lmfao - both mb

That must be quite a sight!

PMSL at this thread

Daisysinaline - you might have been right earlier...

Lol - went away for the afternoon and this thread just kept growing!!! No science experiments gonna be happening tonight though I'm afraid... fell over while I was out and now ache all over!! I might still have the baileys though...

Had 3yr old party to attend this afternoon! Ah - this thread is very funny!

Don't know if I have ever had a VO. Have had O during penetration, but know that this was due to C stimulation. It's all this G-spot thing isn't it? Believe me, DH and I have spent YEARS looking for mine. I get fed up after a while, and just tell him to get on with what he knows best.

I do know that my Os can vary wildly from mildly pleasant to earth shatteringly WOW!

Have seen some downloaded snippets of women ejaculating (oh the wonders of the internet!) and I have always thought "Glad I can't do THAT!" I'm sure being washed away on a tide of female ejaculate must be pretty tiresome after a while, not to mention hard work on the washing machine!

teach me custy, teach me.......

Can I just say that most couples would benefit from one of these

10 out of 10!

Could you honestly stop laughing long enough to do the deed if your dh/dp dressed up like this?