Orgasms - personal but am dying to know!

[daisiesinaline]

Another thread on here as reminded me of a burning question I have had for ages.

In a conversation with a girl friend of mine, she said that she orgasmed during penetrative sex. I don't. Only during foreplay. Are we doing something wrong?

What do other people experience?

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I wouldn't even know where to put that!!??

And ElfBert.... I don't think I even possess a G Spot!!

Dorling Kindersley publish sex books here! I think I've led a sheltered life.

Any partner that I've tried those rings with have found them unbearably uncomfortable. They've all been left with weals from the things

my dp is master of g spots!! he learnt his tricks elsewhere but i have no complaints, he awakened mine after years and years i swore to all that i never had one.
my gspot is unreachable for me as its right round the bend needs gentle pressure rather than frantic rubbing

NDP - you need to put something like KY on beforehand.
Found out after poor dh was in agony after the first one I bought nearly cut him to bits

lol. I'll try to remember that, BH

I don't know whats wrong with me lately. I normally say it's a no, no to talk about my sex life!

Blimey lockets you are very lucky.

Missionary is like watching paint dry for me. I never do it!

Start there and then move on, in this house!

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Martian Bishop - you have really surprised me I have to say.
I have a real "prim and proper" image when I think of you

Lockets - wish I was you!

I hide a very small light under a bloody enormous bushel

Notice it's all gone rather quiet on here now....are you all 'experimenting'?
(you lucky trollops - I'm a poker widow tonight

lol was just thinking the same thing!!

just have to say girls, what a great thread. im so of the lot of u......!

God no! Dh has had more than his quota this week and I don't like to spoil him

brill thread. Had to log off earlier as dd 11 came and sat next to me. just at does size matter bit.

yes do have vo but usually after dh has done his bit then i have to carry on till i've had mine. But think foreplay is much better would opt for that anytime rather than penetrative - it's too uncomfortable with prolapse (any tips on that front) at a risk of hijaking. can only do co for so long though then just have to stop as i can't stand it anylonger.

No chance of experimenting in this house tonight,just come to bed dh downstairs still dds still awake, what do you give them when they get to 11 & 13 to get them to sleep apart from a hammer that is.

I agree, foreplay makes me far too sensitive. But getting right in and 'doing it'well, that does it for me.Often I need to wiggle into the right position for clitoral stimulation.

...can't believe I say this stuff on here!!!

My DH pointed out to me that most women have a VO whilst having sex. I have only been with him 10 years and I do have a salubrious (sp)past . So I told him to f**k off.

I have done it twice (VO) but most have one cos I do it or do it on my own. I know that this is TMI but for gods sake where are these blokes getting their info.

i also heard it was hereditary as in how easy you find it.

thanks mum

has anyone lost the ability to have a VO post-birth? It all seems a bit 'numb' chez moi, particularly since baby no. 3. Afraid penetration really doesn't do all that much for me. COs are no problem as long as done by self rather than dh who lacks a gentle touch. I've been starting to get rather obsessed about the VO issue - it's reassuring to see that I'm not the only one who doesn't have them (anymore).

I was going to change me name for this as I don't really "do" sex life etc on here, but seeing as most of you haven't change I'll just join in.

Lockets I'm the same, missionary always "works" IYKWIM.

Foreplay never "works"