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2nd stillbirth in 6 months. In shock.

247 replies

desperatehousewife · 22/05/2006 14:25

Had stillbirth at end of november - at 25 weeks. Got pregnant again 2 months later and went for 16 week scan this morning to be told this baby has died too. Am in shock but devestated - seems so unfair to happen twice in a row.

That's it really - just wanted to tell someone. I have to give birth on Wednesday.

I have felt like such a lucky person all my life and at the moment am feeling bloody unlucky and don't quite know what to make of it.

whereas in november I always knew i'd have another baby, this time I just don't know if I could go through pregnancy again. Am feeling pretty grim about the whole thing to be honest.

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Carmenere · 22/05/2006 14:26

You poor poor darling Sad

hulababy · 22/05/2006 14:27

So sorry :( It is very unfair.

moondog · 22/05/2006 14:27

DH....Sad Sad Sad Sad

unicorn · 22/05/2006 14:28

omg, how truly awful for you. I am so very, very sorry.
Hopefully someone will be along who can give you some better advice/support.
I really am so very sorry, and I agree,it isn't fair at all.

foundintranslation · 22/05/2006 14:28

I'm so, so, so very very sorry, dh. :( :( :(

Feistybird · 22/05/2006 14:29

I just don't know what to say, this is so terribly sad.

schneebly · 22/05/2006 14:31

Oh god - have tears in my eyes - so very sorry that you have to go through this again. It really isn't fair. Sending love. Sad

Pruni · 22/05/2006 14:32

dh Sad
Desperately sorry.
Will be thinking of you. xxP

twocatsonthebed · 22/05/2006 14:32

Oh dhw, I'm so, so sorry to hear that Sad Sad Sad. I will be thinking of you so much on Wed.

Fimbo · 22/05/2006 14:32

Words seem so useless. Sad

bossykate · 22/05/2006 14:34

so, so sorry Sad

cece · 22/05/2006 14:35

I am so sorry to hear this - our thoughts are with you. We will all think of you on Weds.

YellowFeathers · 22/05/2006 14:35

So sorry Dhw
Sad
xxxx

LadyTophamHatt · 22/05/2006 14:36

Oh my god DHW...I'm so unbelievabley sorry.

I really don't know what to say. You poor thing.

I'm absolutley gutted for youSad

CountessDracula · 22/05/2006 14:37

So sorry dhw :(

BettySpaghetti · 22/05/2006 14:37

so sorry Sad

Tommy · 22/05/2006 14:37

so terribly sorry for you Sad
Can't say anything to make you feel better but hope it helps knowing that people are here for you.

LIZS · 22/05/2006 14:38

Sad I'm so sorry, thinking of you.

expatinscotland · 22/05/2006 14:42

so sorry, desperate.

Sad
Esmummy · 22/05/2006 14:44

DHW :( So so sorry, don't know what to say at all.
Thinking of you

emkana · 22/05/2006 14:45

I am so so sorry. Sad

hoxtonchick · 22/05/2006 14:45

oh how how awful dhw, i'm so sorry. :( :( :(.

threelittlebabies · 22/05/2006 14:51

dhw I am so, so sorry. I have been through this, and I don't know what to say either. I am devestated for you. Will be thinking of you on Wednesday and the coming months x

GDG · 22/05/2006 14:52

So, so sorry dhw - thinking of you
x

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