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To find this a really snobby comment from neighbour?

203 replies

Jiuenk · 10/08/2026 20:56

We moved our motor home out into the street earlier so we (DH, DD and I) could clean it.

A woman walked past with a child who made a comment, something innocuous about it being quite big.

The woman said ‘your lucky you never have to go in one of them and we can go abroad’.

I thought - you cheeky cow. We have had some great trips away over the years, and go abroad at times too. I wish I said something to her now!

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concertinacornflake · 10/08/2026 20:58

If have laughed at that, what a wally.

Thepeopleversuswork · 10/08/2026 20:59

What an oafish, ungracious thing to say.

Simonjt · 10/08/2026 21:00

She obviously has no idea how expensive motorhomes are!

HoraceCope · 10/08/2026 21:00

what an absolute ignorant thing to say!

Roseonthebalcony · 10/08/2026 21:00

Ew, totally snobby! Motor homes are cool and it’s all about the time and memories not the type of holiday ❤️

Imupforthat · 10/08/2026 21:02

Ignorant moo. I’m jealous I’d love one.

If you’re cleaning ahead of a trip have an absolutely wonderful time. X

mondaytosunday · 10/08/2026 21:02

I know some very wealthy people who have caravans - I thought they were really expensive! My FIL used to take his all over Europe!

Rachelshair · 10/08/2026 21:03

Maybe she's just not a fan of motorhomes? I wouldn't take it personally but yes it is rude to say it in earshot.

DorsetMermaid · 10/08/2026 21:04

Poor woman doesn't know how much fun she could be having.
Camping/motor home holidays are fantastic.

Nousernameideaaga · 10/08/2026 21:05

We’ve had lots of lovely trips abroad

We wouldn’t be able to afford a motor home

ranoutofquinoaandprosecco · 10/08/2026 21:05

Does she realise you basically have a second home?

sesquipedalian · 10/08/2026 21:05

OP, my DB has one, and guess what? He and his DW go abroad in it. Just ignore sad, ignorant passer-by - she’s probably jealous.

Jiuenk · 10/08/2026 21:08

Rachelshair · 10/08/2026 21:03

Maybe she's just not a fan of motorhomes? I wouldn't take it personally but yes it is rude to say it in earshot.

‘Maybe’? I think that much is clear. 😂

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worldshottestmom · 10/08/2026 21:11

What an embarrassing thing for her to say. People who own motor homes cannot go abroad! News to me..

Roseonthebalcony · 10/08/2026 21:12

Rachelshair · 10/08/2026 21:03

Maybe she's just not a fan of motorhomes? I wouldn't take it personally but yes it is rude to say it in earshot.

It’s also kind of a shitty attitude to have and even worse to say it to the child who will end up the same. I would never say that to our child because I’m not raising a future arsehole.

worldshottestmom · 10/08/2026 21:12

Oh and I would have responded by turning to my DD and saying "you are so lucky that we can afford a motor home AND holidays abroad"

What a snobby cow

ThatJadeLion · 10/08/2026 21:19

It's jealousy!!

Thehop · 10/08/2026 21:21

She doesn't have a clue. We got abroad every year but would love to be able to afford a motor home 😂

Jiuenk · 10/08/2026 21:24

God, I wish I said something now. DH suggested ‘you could do with a walking holiday in the English countryside rather than gobbling a TUI all inclusive buffet!’ - she is slightly robust in size.

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Anna1mac · 10/08/2026 21:28

DorsetMermaid · 10/08/2026 21:04

Poor woman doesn't know how much fun she could be having.
Camping/motor home holidays are fantastic.

Maybe to you. Not to rest of us who have to be stuck behind you in traffic....

Roseonthebalcony · 10/08/2026 21:30

Anna1mac · 10/08/2026 21:28

Maybe to you. Not to rest of us who have to be stuck behind you in traffic....

Bore off.

DorsetMermaid · 10/08/2026 21:31

Anna1mac · 10/08/2026 21:28

Maybe to you. Not to rest of us who have to be stuck behind you in traffic....

I drive a Ford Focus with my tent in the boot.

You could overtake or just leave home earlier.

Suzylola22 · 10/08/2026 21:33

We have a motor home and have had some great holidays. We lived full time in it for 7 months while waiting for a house sale to complete. I was amazed at some comments I received from friends such as how do you feel about being homeless and really looking down on us because our home wasn’t a brick one at the time! I think people are possibly jealous of your lifestyle.

Anna1mac · 10/08/2026 21:35

DorsetMermaid · 10/08/2026 21:31

I drive a Ford Focus with my tent in the boot.

You could overtake or just leave home earlier.

Then you are not one of those caravan pulling arseholes / big motorhomes wankers

DorsetMermaid · 10/08/2026 21:36

Anna1mac · 10/08/2026 21:35

Then you are not one of those caravan pulling arseholes / big motorhomes wankers

OH dear.