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My partner sent me a screenshot and at the top there was an arrow <plenty of fish he is saying he was on twitter

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Lolabray · 08/01/2022 22:58

Please can you give me your opinions.

I screenshotted my partner a funny picture of him on a day out where he was in some gardens waving and sent it over to him with giggles on the photo remembering the day.

A minute later he sent me a screenshot back but I noticed at the top of the page there was this written above the picture as if to say go back to the previous page

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youvegottenminuteslynn · 09/01/2022 15:56

If he's turning up drunk (or even sober) after you break up with him, to the house you share with your kids, then call the police. I don't understand why you're continuing an on again / off again relationship with someone who is such a shit boyfriend. Especially when you have kids.

Lolabray · 09/01/2022 16:05

youvegottenminuteslynn Fair point. To a certain degree he has been good for my family however things like this are unsettling and upset everyone.

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billy1966 · 09/01/2022 16:10

@youvegottenminuteslynn

If he's turning up drunk (or even sober) after you break up with him, to the house you share with your kids, then call the police. I don't understand why you're continuing an on again / off again relationship with someone who is such a shit boyfriend. Especially when you have kids.
This.

If he comes NEAR your home, call the police.

LawnFever · 09/01/2022 16:43

Oh @Lolabray sorry you’re going through this, good luck with getting rid & moving on.

He’s sounds really dim tbh, even his ‘explanation’ about emails etc is just digging himself more of a hole.

At least you don’t live with him, hope you’re ok today.

Fraternaltwin · 09/01/2022 16:47

@Lolabray

This is what he says he clicked on
I think he’s bullshitting you. It looks to me like his previous window open was plenty of fish and it’s giving him the option to go back to that.
WhyYesYABU · 09/01/2022 16:50

So first it's Twitter, then when that doesn't work it's an email? And he is no longer active but has messages? How are women messaging a profile that doesn't exist any longer?

He's not only a liar, he's not very bright.

Cas112 · 09/01/2022 16:50

He was on plenty of fish.

He has an iPhone yes? If you click on a message that just comes through then the page you have just been on is at the top for you to just click on and go back to. He's been caught out there 100%

Merryoldgoat · 09/01/2022 17:32

@Lolabray

youvegottenminuteslynn Fair point. To a certain degree he has been good for my family however things like this are unsettling and upset everyone.
In what way is a lying pisshead who won’t take no for an answer good for your family.

Ffs - I’m so tired of reading about these shitty men but I’m tired of them being allowed to get away with it too.

fuckfuckfuck2021 · 09/01/2022 19:05

He was deffo on the site while taking that screenshot! Men can be so sly! Move on you deserve better!

youvegottenminuteslynn · 09/01/2022 19:11

@Lolabray

Fair point. To a certain degree he has been good for my family however things like this are unsettling and upset everyone.

Good enough for you and / or your family that it's worth you keep on seeing him even though he's openly pursuing other women on dating sites, lying about it and treating you like an idiot who will believe his bullshit justifications?

Doubt it!

Please don't keep showing your kids this relationship as an example of what is healthy and normal. It's damaging to them long term as well as short term.

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