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My partner sent me a screenshot and at the top there was an arrow <plenty of fish he is saying he was on twitter

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Lolabray · 08/01/2022 22:58

Please can you give me your opinions.

I screenshotted my partner a funny picture of him on a day out where he was in some gardens waving and sent it over to him with giggles on the photo remembering the day.

A minute later he sent me a screenshot back but I noticed at the top of the page there was this written above the picture as if to say go back to the previous page

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Polkadotties · 08/01/2022 23:15

Here’s what happens when you click a link through twitter

My partner sent me a screenshot and at the top there was an arrow <plenty of fish he is saying he was on twitter
feliciabirthgiver · 08/01/2022 23:15

I bet he feels a total dick now....I'm sorry OP that's so shit for you Thanks

Conspiracyornotr · 08/01/2022 23:15

If you go.onto his app store on phone it tells you the apps you have installed and deleted x

pinkcarpets · 08/01/2022 23:15

Sorry OP, that's the previous app he was using before screenshotting

Lolabray · 08/01/2022 23:16

This is what he says he clicked on

My partner sent me a screenshot and at the top there was an arrow <plenty of fish he is saying he was on twitter
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MissSmiley · 08/01/2022 23:17

He was definitely on POF

JenniferWooley · 08/01/2022 23:17

If I get a message notification while I'm on Mumsnet (drops down from top of screen) & click it I get the

MissSmiley · 08/01/2022 23:18

Do you live together? How long have you been together?

Relationadviceneeded · 08/01/2022 23:18

He was on it 😞

Lolabray · 08/01/2022 23:19

@ elelel no my ex husband had affairs and met people online. this is a new partner

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SmellyOldOwls · 08/01/2022 23:19

Yeah he was on plenty of fish. Doesn't matter if it was on his Twitter feed, it still would have said

Lolabray · 08/01/2022 23:19

@JenniferWooley hit the nail on the head !!

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Ileflottante · 08/01/2022 23:20

@EishetChayil

No doubt at all that he's been on it.

And what an absolute idiot to have been caught out like that.

Absolutely this. What a twat. Sorry, OP.
TheHamburgler · 08/01/2022 23:20

It looks really suspect.

That said, does anyone know if you can actually open webpages in the POF app?

Sprucewillis · 08/01/2022 23:21

So he was just interested in the quality of the POF app or the service? He's been caught. It's up to you know but I would def get an STI test OP.

Soontobe60 · 08/01/2022 23:21

@Snorkmaidenn

I don't think Twitter advertises pof
Do you know how advertising works on social media? One search of an item or website will result in endless ads on your Twitter, Facebook, and email pages.
Thedogscollar · 08/01/2022 23:22

@Lolabray

@ Thedogscollar go away you’re being very unhelpful and judgemental
My response was to the one you received from AntandDec saying you don't sound past drama. I was not directing the comment at you. Read my post again and you might see who I was directing it too. I'm fed up of people on this forum with their snide comments when you are obviously worried if your partner is on POF. In future will stay quiet. Good luck with partner tho.
CornishTiger · 08/01/2022 23:23

Sorry OP 100% been on POF website.

What will you do now?

Soontobe60 · 08/01/2022 23:23

He’s definitely looked at the site, but it doesn’t mean he’s joined.

GreenClock · 08/01/2022 23:24

Did you have any suspicions before this?

HopeYourHighHorseBucks · 08/01/2022 23:24

Don't choose to believe him, you know he has been on it. What an idiot

VioletVesper · 08/01/2022 23:25

[quote JenniferWooley]If I get a message notification while I'm on Mumsnet (drops down from top of screen) & click it I get the

MissSmiley · 08/01/2022 23:26

@MissSmiley

Do you live together? How long have you been together?
Sorry just seen you don't live together Three years is quite a long time though
Goldwhisper · 08/01/2022 23:26

You can see the words are highlighted where he’s searched for plenty of fish on Twitter in the second shot to cover his back. Plus even clicking that page he says would just take you to plenty of fishes Twitter page, it’s not even an ad.

TooMuchSugar22 · 08/01/2022 23:26

He's saying to search as he's deleted it..