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AIBU to think this outfit is inappropriate?

223 replies

MadameKali · 08/08/2021 13:46

Picture of Grayson Perry at a wedding. Posted to Instagram with the caption "I am at a wedding, I didn't want to upstage the bride so went comfy and low key"

AIBU in thinking that in this outfit, upstaging the bride is exactly what he wanted to do? The comments on his post are all "Fab outfit", "You look amazing", "I bet the bride wouldn't have minded being upstaged by you" etc etc. I normally like GP but this is just so me, me, me and selfish.

Who goes to a wedding in dungarees and a hoodie? Am I just being a grump? It wouldn't be completely unheard of

AIBU to think this outfit is inappropriate?
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QueenBee52 · 08/08/2021 13:48

just looks like a pratt

LittleRedPill · 08/08/2021 13:51

I don’t think dungarees are appropriate wedding attire for anyone over the age of 2 tbh.

Sparklesocks · 08/08/2021 13:51

I’d assume if you knew him well enough to invite him to your wedding you’d not expect him to rock up in a tie! I guess it’s hard to say without knowing the bride/groom/feeling of the wedding etc.

LimeSodaTwist · 08/08/2021 13:51

I’m sure the bride knows what he’s like!

CuriousaboutSamphire · 08/08/2021 13:51

Can't imagine any of his friends would expect anything else.

This or a mad frock.

Concestor · 08/08/2021 13:52

He always dresses flamboyantly so I imagine the bride expects it and won't feel upstaged.

whatswithtodaytoday · 08/08/2021 13:52

I assume he brands he didn't feel it would be appropriate to arrive in a flamboyant dress, which he might normally wear. So yes, quite low-key for him really! And maybe it's an informal wedding. He looks great.

EishetChayil · 08/08/2021 13:52

Typical narcissist.

texasss · 08/08/2021 13:52

If Grayson Perry was at my wedding I'd be gutted if he turned up in a suit for the photos!

whatswithtodaytoday · 08/08/2021 13:52

*means nots brands.

LawnFever · 08/08/2021 13:55

He’s known for his extravagant outfits, if he’s well known enough by the couple to be at their wedding it’s hardly going to be a surprise that he’s wearing something unusual.

MadeOfStarStuff · 08/08/2021 13:55

It’s definitely an attention seeking outfit. I don’t know who he is but from the photo he looks like he probably is desperate for attention generally so whoever invited him to their wedding would probably guess he’d act like a prat but didn’t care

sweeneytoddsrazor · 08/08/2021 13:56

Whilst I wouldn't class it as wedding attire, I am fairly certain that nobody would expect him to rock up in anything remotely like normal wedding attire and therefore not be in the slightest bit bothered by it

DoingItMyself · 08/08/2021 13:56

Grayson Perry often looks much worse than that. The outfit and attitude look cheerful and fun.

ChainJane · 08/08/2021 13:58

I guess the people whose wedding it was know him and therefore know what sort of thing he's likely to turn up in. It's not like he was going to turn up in a plain suit and tie combo.

TooBigForMyBoots · 08/08/2021 14:00

If I invited Grayson Perry to anything I'd expect him to dress colourfully and a bit outrageously. It's what he does.🤷‍♀️

YABU OP.

Nuffaluff · 08/08/2021 14:00

YABU. If you invite Grayson Perry to your wedding you know what you are going to get!
I bet she loved it.

CurbsideProphet · 08/08/2021 14:00

Presumably whoever invited him would fully anticipate some sort of attention seeking stunt. He always dresses like a strange child so he's no different to usual.

Ghosttile · 08/08/2021 14:02

I think that if you invite Grayson Perry to your wedding you must know him well enough to guess that his outfit will be rather bright.

I think the MN advice is to look for a jumpsuit if you don’t fancy a dress.

Unsure33 · 08/08/2021 14:03

That’s just his personality. I am sure the bride would expect it . I can’t see a problem.

TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross · 08/08/2021 14:03

I mean, he doesn't ever not look like he's been left alone for half an hour with a kid's dressing up box whatever the occasion, so I can't imagine the bride is surprised/bothered.

Peanutsandchilli · 08/08/2021 14:12

Looks like he's on the set of some new cbeebies show, rather than a wedding, but it's not like this outfit is unusual for him. I'm sure the bride and groom were well aware of what he'd turn up in.

RickJames · 08/08/2021 14:12

He's well covered up and looks festive. I would not have an issue with him showing up at my wedding like this.

My mum's funeral?... then I might be a bit cross.

Ghosttile · 08/08/2021 14:13

This is upstaging the bride (image from google)

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Ghosttile · 08/08/2021 14:14

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