To be soo grossed out by this...

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So OLD... Been mailing a guy, we'recommend both in our 30's, online condos went well so we swapped numbers, text condos were going really well too... until I got this, which has really revolted me, I mean WTAF?? Or am I being a prude??

Um
Also what is he on about "bums nipping already" and "surrounded by ordinary commoners"?

Omg! Wtf??? Loved your reply btw

He's odd.

Fuck no! No way would I meet up with him. If that makes me a prude so be it.
There's honesty then there is TMI.
He's probably the kind of guy who thinks a dutch oven is funny.

I think a mate has got hold of his phone...

Nerves about us meeting, he's mentioned wearing nappies thathe I cod handle but this??

😂😂😂 sorry OP but that has made me chuckle! Bum nipping?! I'm trying to think what it might be an autocorrect mistake for....

I did online dating and was good at weeding out the weirdos...he's definitely a weirdo! Move on!

Convos- sorry! OMG don't want to know what a Dutch oven is... do I?!

You're not being a prude, jeez that's awful.

I did really like him! But just can't get my head round an adult male thinking that is appropriate...

Someone's taken his phone...Surely.

I think he's the online dating poo troll...

I think he's just being a tiny bit over familiar and sharing a funny / embarrassing story. I'd still meet him, it really isn't that bad.

Wearing nappies, poo stories, I think he is sussing out if you'd be into poo play (if there this is even a thing)..

Poo trolls are everywhere

Sounds like it might be my ex!
Why a grown man would think you're interested in his bowel movements is beyond me! Not sexy is it?! Gross.

Some people find poo stories funny, they make me dry retch.

That's... really weird and childish. Just so weird (and this is before the "comfortable with each other" stage - I dread to think how much worse it could get!)

I would block and delete his number. But then I'm a bitch like that.

Eh he isn't being weird man 'bums nipping' means he was nervous about meeting you and he was trying to be clever in his wording about meeting in a bog standard public place like a pub.

Poor bugger it serves him right for not using more straightforward words.

He's mentioned wearing nappies?? Wtf?

He sounds clueless and gross. Move on.

I think your response was ideal.

If you had been married for ages and he mentioned that story, it would still be a bit gross, but perfectly fine (as in, he should be able to tell you without you freaking out, if it was a memorable part of his day).

As you are still at a very very early stage of a possible relationship, really he should still be on "best behaviour" a bit more than that - your reaction has reinforced the boundaries of what is appropriate in your mind at this stage, to him.

I assume all this ordinary/common stuff is him trying to be lighthearted and thereby flirt, but what is this about wearing nappies??

I think you've stumbled upon the male equivalent of Jacqui McNappy. I'd tell him to scat if I were you.

I think it's quite handy he sent it...now you know he's probably not your cup of tea.x