To be soo grossed out by this...

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So OLD... Been mailing a guy, we'recommend both in our 30's, online condos went well so we swapped numbers, text condos were going really well too... until I got this, which has really revolted me, I mean WTAF?? Or am I being a prude??

"Give the poor guy another chance, you may be throwing away something great."

Used adult nappies are the only thing she'll be throwing away.

It's a Shit Test, isn't it. Just a literal one.

Oh my god! You are NOT a prude - block him!

Is there actually something like a poo test to find out if people are into this sort of thing?

You made a clean (literally) escape, OP.

I think it's kinda funny. Maybe he's trying to suss out whether you have compatible toilet humour.

I don't think he has a poop fetish.

I think it's just a manifestation of the conviction (some) men have that their bowel habits are Simply Fascinating. It's an extension of the fact that they can't just slip away to the khazi, but have to follow you around the house declaring that they're going for a crap, taking out an ad in the local paper, employing eight buglers and a town crier, etc...

My DP doesn't do this any more after I started to tell him when I was going to change my tampon. Him: 'Eww, why would I want to know?' Me: Hard Stare.

If you don't like it, move on. He seems to have a childish sense of humour that I would find funny but clearly that's not to everyone's taste.

gamer agree with you completely.
None of that conversation makes me think he is into poo or anything like that,just oversharing and trying ( and failing to the op atleast) to be funny.
Everyone has now jumped to say and convince the op he must have a fetish and be an adult baby because he has mentioned diapers!
The op hasn't even told us the context of why diapers were mentioned, but no, he must be an adult baby.

I'd have to know exactly what the nappy comment was before i'd think about poo fetish.

My DH can be a bit free and easy with details which i would personally leave out of everyday conversations and he might possibly have regaled me with a text about blocking a loo in our 'courting' days. It's a bit of a stream of consciousness thing with him though. Doesn't think before engaging brain. Because i know him i'd have laughed and said ''TMI'' or something and he'd have said sorry darling and that would have been that.

The op hasn't even told us the context of why diapers were mentioned

My guess is he has stated he wets the bed.
Classic adult baby thing.

Reading that I would say he is just really nervous about meeting you (shitting himself) but is expressing it very badly, in a way that he thinks is funny. Some people are very matter of fact about bodily functions, and can be without being any kind of coprophile.

However the fact is it did gross you out, so whatever the reason he's not the guy for you.

OP, please tell us what he said about nappies.

OP, I think the most important question here is, are you going to see him again? [boak]

Its a compliancy test. Run like the wind, unless you are also into scat.

Licence my roving hands, let them go,
Behind, between, above, beneath, below,
Oh my America! My Newfoundland,
My kingdom safeliest when with one man manned.

Does he have IBD?

He's def got a fetish, there's too much of a theme...

If he hasn't then he's a massive tosser anyway for not realising how that comes across. How isthat in any way attractive? Yuck.

An awful lot of blokes are obsessed with the workings of their lower alimentary canal, and enjoy talking about what sort of a sh*t they had.

IMO it's for the same reason that so many blokes sit for bloody ages on the loo, and apparently enjoy stinking it out for everybody else. Maybe it's a bit like animals marking their territory with pee. A bit primeval, but then a lot of blokes are largely primeval anyway.

My father used to go off with the paper for his 'sit' session and say, 'I am going to commune with my soul.'

Herbaceous - yes, why is that?! I grew up the only girl of 4 so I'm used to 'toilet humour' and yes that what I was thinking, talk him thru my last period!

Mollyhops- we hvnt even met yet!!

He likes poo. He's talked about wearing nappies (to poo in), his bum 'nipping' and doing a massive poo that offended someone else. This is him testing the water to see if you like poo too. He steered the conversation towards that little poo anecdote.

What was the context of the nappy comment?

OP what do you mean 'yet''?! Do you plan to set this guy? Aim higher, much higher!

Why (some) men are so poo-obsessed I have no idea, but it so very very tedious. If he hasn't realised how tedious it is by now, and you ended up with him, imagine what your life would be like.

He fancies himself as hilariously ironic and eloquent doesn't he? Urgh.

I got online chatting to a bloke years ago (before DH) who asked if he could write me a letter about himself rather than email. I said of course.

He sent me 26 pages and of infantilism fetish experiences and fantasies.

DELETE. DELETE. DELETE.

HarmlessChap why let the fact the op hasn't said how he mentioned nappies stop the rest of mn run wild with howhe must be an adult baby or into poo porn