To be soo grossed out by this...

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So OLD... Been mailing a guy, we'recommend both in our 30's, online condos went well so we swapped numbers, text condos were going really well too... until I got this, which has really revolted me, I mean WTAF?? Or am I being a prude??

I'd definitely turd him down, OP. I really wouldn't want to clingon to this particular date. Imagine the nuggets he'd regale you with on meeting. He's certainly flushed his chances of success down the pan, I'd say.

liz70 you didn't...

Haha Liz70!

Liz is right, dump him.

Although bit disappointed you didn't get dingleberries in there

at what point and in what context did he mention wearing nappies?

NAPPIES?!? Jesus wept. Run a mile. No. Run several.

dirty pig in a public loo

OMG. Am crying......

Dear god. And to think I almost cancelled our date when my Dh missed off the article 'The' preceding the restaurant name he texted me...

Maybe he thought he'd just floater it by you?

Run.

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what an uptight snob!

I know IminaPickle It got worse, went on the date and, when he put milk in his coffee I almost gagged. It's the little things that scunner me. The first mention of u bends and I'd be history.

I absolutely love a poo story plus now you know he washes his hands after using the loo so that is a bonus.

Meet him and give us live updates on MN

I have one word. I haven't read the whole thread so excuse me if this has already been said, but

No no no no no no no no no no no no no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Do not meet this man. Do not talk to this man. This man is wrong.

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I must admit I really want you to meet him and update us. We can give you a list of questions

I only partly mean that, don't worry.

If this is what he says before you meet imagine what he'll come out with once he comfortable with you. Run away and don't look back.

No. this man is a tosser.

It's obviously a troll.

I knew someone who emailed his best (colleague) mates a very detailed description of a poo he'd done after they'd all been out to lunch which ended with "there's a smear left in the bowl if you want to have a look". Nice bloke (and married) but a little quirky and even his very non-prudish mates looked like they were taking a moment to reavaluate their friendship.

Time to move on, I think. Can you imagine what delights he share with you if you were living together?

Ew. Even if he's not a poo shagger he's way too comfortable considering you've not even met yet!

Despite the weirdness I'm tempted to give the benefit of the doubt and wonder if the guy is sat there with his head in his hands re-reading his message again and again thinking "WHY did I have to say that?!"

OP is the convo still going? How has it been left?

I don't think it matters a bit whether he has a fettish or not.

He has such incredibly poor social skills I wouldn't want to take it any further.

I have a brother, I have cousins, friends, children...I'm not short of stupid male toilet humour or 'facts' & details. None of it amuses me, but it doesn't particularly offend me either. But there's no way I'd meet up with some guy who thought this was socially acceptable before you've even met. FFS.

OP, has there been any further chat between you?!

Why even consider a relationship with someone with no social skills, no understanding of mature appropriate conversation and no acceptable toileting skills?