To be soo grossed out by this...

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So OLD... Been mailing a guy, we'recommend both in our 30's, online condos went well so we swapped numbers, text condos were going really well too... until I got this, which has really revolted me, I mean WTAF?? Or am I being a prude??

Yeah, he has a scat fetish and he's preparing you for both that and him wearing nappies.

If that's okay by you, carry on. If not, this isn't going anywhere. He's trying to make sure you'll be game before he meets you.

He sounds like a weirdo!

That it does man. At least they don't post dick pics on facebook. Some men are just very proud of their offerings.

What? YANBU whatsoever. Steer clear. Yuck

Bestzebbie - yes I agree, it'd be eeww dp tmi... but at this stage?!

Goldenhandshake - me either...

He definitely has a fetish. I'd be tempted to lead him on a little, ask him if he has other "blocked toilet" stories - just so you can entertain us all with his responses! THEN block him.

I say he's an Adul Baby looking for a mummy.

I'd just outright state you are not after a fetish thing and block him.

Gamerchick - offerings - boak

Have you responded?

FGS i thought it was going to be something incredibly inappropriately sexual.
This is really not that bad. Everyone poops. Ok so you didn't want to know, just ask him to please not discuss things like that with you again. Some people try to be open about everything so that there aren't any "taboo" subjects. Plenty of women i know won't even admit they fart when talking to a prospective partner, let alone poop!

If you oherwise like him it's very harsh to ditch him over this. Give the poor guy another chance, you may be throwing away something great.

What a blessing you now know. He is stuck in the childish little boy "Look Mummy, I've done a poo!" phase. Also, he is tactless & lacking any sensitivity. Have nothing more to do with him.

You are not a prude.

Omg. Literally burst out laughing at bum nipping already! What is he on about?! Delete and block the number, then run far away!!

Bum nipping

Does it really mean he has a fetish?

Surely there are loads of men out there who are so puerile they think everyone, even a woman they are trying to impress, would think that story was funny.

I have known a few men who would tell tales like this in an attempt to amuse. And there are frequently threads on here where women share their embarrassing poo stories for the entertainment of others, ok fair enough these are a) anonymous and b) no one is trying it as a pick-up line but you can't say that all of these people have a fetish.

I'd say it's just a sign that he is socially inept and steer clear because of that.

Urgh, very offputting. I might tell my husband this story if it happened to me (which of course it never would as I am a laydee) but never anyone else, certainly not someone I was just getting to know.

Leave the building!

Does it really mean he has a fetish?

Combined with the fact that he has mentioned wearing nappies, yes, most probably the guy has a fetish.

It's the nappies thing that's the give away, surely. The blocked toilet is a bit presumptuous and silly, but if he has actually mentioned nappies, then he's on the hunt for a fetish partner.

Mn is full of great threads today.

Don't meet him.

I would have stopped when he said his name was Ian. No offence to anyone who married an Ian. It just screams "odd" to me.

I would take that as blatant poofetishist signals and move on. Surely there are specialist hookup/dating sites for folk with special requirements?

Never mind the poo, I wouldn't be too impressed with him telling people it's okay to use the accessible loo. Leave it for disabled people!

I don't think it's THAT bad, come on people. I was laughing! He is funny

Do u want his no. Notgivin

Urgh

Just NO.

Either he's got rubbish social skills and is quite puerile or, more likely given the nappies thing, he's trying to signal a fetish to you. Either way I'd be running.