To be soo grossed out by this...

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So OLD... Been mailing a guy, we'recommend both in our 30's, online condos went well so we swapped numbers, text condos were going really well too... until I got this, which has really revolted me, I mean WTAF?? Or am I being a prude??

Clearly an Adult Baby.

Stay away.

Is possible he's turned on by poo and trying to tell you that. Yuck.

I'd have to meet him out of sheer curiosity! (make sure you're in public and surrounded by 'commoners', though)

Omg
Nappies?!
He has some kind of fetish. What a weirdo.

Ineed Lady...!

A quiver, indeed!

Er no Gamer, he was gleefully telling me about blocking a public toilet with a massive dump! - bum nipping did make me laugh before as due nerves etc, but this is a step too far!

Good grief! None of what he's saying points him liking actual shit and all to do with feeling nervous.

Honestly some people man

In fact it's arse nipping, he was trying to be polite. Yeah he's probably not the dude for you OP, the communication doesn't work.

Xpost he's not the dude for you for sure.

None of what he's saying points him liking actual shit

The nappies thing would suggest this. It's not something you tell people.

What was the hot bath comment in reply to? Did he say he was constipated or something?

At least he didn send you a photo of his impressive dump I had a dude do that once. He was so proud.

Ian is weird

What the hell did he say about nappies? And sorry but that bit was OK to you??

I can't even begin to understand that series of texts. Wrong on so many levels. Just no.

Yeah I'm no prude but that would put me right off

Liz7 Scat, I like it

Could be worse OP, he could be my ex and the exact opposite: he claimed to never poo as it's disgusting, and he'd dump any woman who he knew was going for a poo (he deduced this by taking note of how long you were in the toilet, and coming to knock on the door if you were taking 'too long', as not only were you pooing in that time, you were also cheating on him with another man).

Mind you, I think I'm getting mixed up between 'overshare' and 'utterly deranged behaviour' there!

What the fuck.
Do NOT MEET HIM.

And who said romance was dead

I cannot see the thought process behind sending this. I just cannot fathom how, when or why he thought this would be endearing, or interesting, or even funny.

That's fucking disgusting. I would block someone for that, seriously

Sorry but his idea of what is appropriate would put me off him for good. We just wouldn't be on the same wave length and I'd worry about how familiar he'd expect to be with acquaintances . If coarseness doesn't worry you --- but the fact you've posted demonstrates you aren't comfortable with this.
Try we are all human but we teach our children not to discuss certain aspects in public or outside the home.

Bum nipping, massive poo blocking the loo, nappies - he's definitely got a preoccupation and is perhaps testing the water with you to see how you'd react. I wouldn't meet him.

I just cannot fathom how, when or why he thought this would be endearing, or interesting, or even funny.

He didn't, he gets turned on by it and is fishing to see if the OP is the same.

Ian needs to get on a scar site & to get a life. I have no idea in which order

Scat not scar!

Gamerchick make a change from a dick pick!