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To be soo grossed out by this...

212 replies

SkySmiler · 18/11/2016 12:47

So OLD... Been mailing a guy, we'recommend both in our 30's, online condos went well so we swapped numbers, text condos were going really well too... until I got this, which has really revolted me, I mean WTAF?? Or am I being a prude??

To be soo grossed out by this...
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iklboo · 18/11/2016 16:31

He has mentioned wearing nappies - but he may have continence issues. But why then message about his bog buster?

helpimitchy · 18/11/2016 16:32

Wow, what a sophisticated person he must be if he thinks that this is an appropriate topic of conversation with somebody he hasn't even met yet Confused

Out of all the stuff he could be chatting about......current affairs, favourite food or places to visit, cats or dogs, recent holidays........or........poo Hmm
He must be like five or something.

Dating sure is weird these days Confused

CoconutAmericano · 18/11/2016 16:32

If it were me he'd be as blocked as that u bend in Mc D's

Emmageddon · 18/11/2016 16:39

Why would any adult man, presumably child free, talk about nappies in the first place? He's a poo troll.

HarmlessChap · 18/11/2016 16:41

iklboo that guy that sent the 26 page "letter" probably got off on the idea of you reading it much more than he expected you to be interested.

lizzieoak · 18/11/2016 16:49

This is amazing. My exh used to blather on about how he was "off to do a big poo" & I thought he had Lost his fucking mind. But no, apparently this poo thing is not entirely uncommon among men. Unappreciated and undesirable, but not uncommon.

Herbaceous, loved your comment btw.

Heterosexuality sometimes appears to be a bit of a joke God is playing on us.

Personally I would not be up for a text like this. I'm not a prude, but do not find poo chat attractive in a person!

JustAnotherSadOldNumber · 18/11/2016 16:50

he may have continence issues
I have continence issues, I've not diuscussed Nappies with people unless it's specifically related to on going disability discussion, there is just no reason to bring the subject up, let alone repeatedly bring a topic back to poo.

JustAnotherSadOldNumber · 18/11/2016 16:51

unless of course it turns you on having people know.

SkySmiler · 18/11/2016 16:52

The nappy reference was due to us meeting, 'shitting himself'....

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SkySmiler · 18/11/2016 16:53

26 pages Shock reminds me of the Rachel/Ross letter....

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JustAnotherSadOldNumber · 18/11/2016 16:53

How many times has he mentioned shitting himself Sky.

AChristmasCactus · 18/11/2016 16:53

Definitely an ABDL.

ThePinkOcelot · 18/11/2016 16:54

That would have put me right off tbh. Gross!

SkySmiler · 18/11/2016 16:55

Helpmitchy - well this is it... there's so much for 2 mature adults to discuss, why this?!

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CaesiumTime · 18/11/2016 16:59

He's into scat.

Delete. Delete. There just isn't any reason for the conversation to go this way.

MadgeMak · 18/11/2016 16:59

I think he's definitely testing the waters to see if you're into poo play. Needing a nappy in case he shits himself, bum nipping, gross poo story. Has he made any other poo references?

Sugarpiehoneyeye · 18/11/2016 17:05

Eewww, poo fetish, run for the hills ... 😜

iklboo · 18/11/2016 17:05

Ha! I read about half of the first page, looked at the last paragraph & shredded it!

Shiningexample · 18/11/2016 17:05

urgghh wtf

dontcrynow · 18/11/2016 17:06

Unless he has some sort disability necessitating nappy wearing, he has a bottom/poo/baby fetish. the nappy wearing is more of a giveaway than the bottom nipping or having a poo.

iklboo · 18/11/2016 17:07

Just - exactly. I was very remotely trying to give him the benefit of the doubt but it's just not gelling.

ShebaShimmyShake · 18/11/2016 17:09

Wait, he's mentioned wearing nappies too? OK, he might be into adult babying and scat.

PatMullins · 18/11/2016 17:12

Whatever you do, don't go to his and help yourself to a choc ice.

HeyOverHere · 18/11/2016 17:14

Ewwwww.

I think someone's true colors just showed.

Grapeeatingweirdo · 18/11/2016 17:14

See, this would make me laugh and probably endear him to me a little bit. You can normally get a good sense of someone's boundaries through chatting though and it seemed like he just misjudged.