Thank you, @Harassedevictee
Re the changing village situation-
In single sex spaces the girls are fine. There are plenty of other women and girls changing who help each other if necessary. A girl isn’t going to struggle alone there.
It is a bigger issue for boys. I had an 8yr old who was too big for the ladies but not sensible enough for the gents alone. I ended up outside the door of the gents occasionally bellowing in through the door ‘ok Fred? Everything alright? Shall I send someone in to help? Are you nearly ready?’, at intervals.
It reminded the boys that they were not entirely unsupervised, and any predators that someone was paying attention.
Because changing villages are a menace and I feel massively exposed in them.