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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Transman kicked out of gay sauna

210 replies

Badstyley · 31/10/2018 18:15

[ www.gaystarnews.com/article/trans-man-sauna/ ]

Seems a transman was asked to leave a male only sauna because he didn’t have a penis.

The sauna said they would have to approach the council to find out if their license would allow them to admit transmen.

Hope the clicky works. If it doesn’t I’ll post the link below.

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Badstyley · 31/10/2018 18:16

Bugger!

www.gaystarnews.com/article/trans-man-sauna/

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BigGreenOlives · 31/10/2018 18:20

From my understanding the space is single sex and entitled to be exclusively for men (in the same way as the Garrick Club). Gender is not a protected characteristic, sex is.

CosmicCanary · 31/10/2018 18:21

Its ridiculous!!

Here believe this bit of paper rather than your own eyes and actual reality. Halloween Hmm

ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 31/10/2018 18:22

Christ that article is a mess.

If I ruled the world I would decree that people would have to understand the difference between sex and gender before writing.

Anyway, I think the sauna was quite right to turn the individual away, and I think they are wrong to apologise and say they are inclusive of transmen.

ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 31/10/2018 18:23

Gender is not a protected characteristic, sex is.

Gender reassignment is protected.

In this case though I think they have reason to discriminate by sex.

Badstyley · 31/10/2018 18:32

They should’ve stuck to their guns. I bet the regular clientele won’t be happy if lots of vagina havers start rocking up. I can’t believe the nerve of these people.Homosexual, the clue is in the word itself.

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StarsAndWater · 31/10/2018 18:36

They should’ve stuck to their guns. I bet the regular clientele won’t be happy if lots of vagina havers start rocking up. I can’t believe the nerve of these people.Homosexual, the clue is in the word itself.

Agreed. This is nonsense and astoundingly arrogant.

SirVixofVixHall · 31/10/2018 18:42

Agree all. Are gay men not allowed any men-only spaces now ? Ridiculous.

Badstyley · 31/10/2018 18:48

The whole thing just looks like a boundary pushing exercise. How far can I go? What can I get away with? I bet a grand total of 0 females have ever tried to get in before now. Honestly I can’t believe this shit is being pandered to.

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Badstyley · 31/10/2018 18:51

Having said all that, there’s a little part of me that’s glad gay men are getting a taste of the medicine now. Now they might wake the fuck up and stop supporting this nonsense. They’re quite happy to ignore it when it doesn’t affect them, but when it lands on their doorstep they might not be so nonchalant.

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noeffingidea · 31/10/2018 18:53

Are gay men not allowed any men only spaces now ?
Isn't this more or less what has happened to lesbian groups and clubs for the last few years? I suppose it was inevitable that it would spread to gay men's spaces after a while.
It is sad when businesses feel the need to apologise instead of saying 'Nah those are the rules, fuck off if you don't like it'. Or words to that effect.

DisrespectfulAdultFemale · 31/10/2018 18:53

Yep. Shoe's on the other foot now and it doesn't fit so well, does it?

lenaperkins · 31/10/2018 19:07

Hmmm. A job for Man Friday?

VickyEadie · 31/10/2018 19:13

(Wonders how to put this...)

Er...aren't gay saunas principally places for gay blokes to...get it on with each other?

Why would a transman think they'd anything to offer in there?

HemanOrSheRa · 31/10/2018 19:15

I wonder what LOJ has to say about this?

Haworthia · 31/10/2018 19:17

Why would a transman think they'd anything to offer in there?

Well, um, I'm guessing they were offering sexual services that don’t require a penis.

I have to say, I’m intrigued by the concept of a transman attracted to men. I figured most transmen were lesbians prior to transitioning.

But I digress. Shock horror, gay men don’t want to have sex with vagina-havers Shock

AspieAndProud · 31/10/2018 19:17

Bet I’m not the only one laughing at what would have happened if Harrop had been one of those getting his sweat on...

AspieAndProud · 31/10/2018 19:19

And Little Owen too.

This has the potential to take Man Friday to the next level...

Apollo440 · 31/10/2018 19:22

Er...aren't gay saunas principally places for gay blokes to...get it on with each other?

Why would a transman think they'd anything to offer in there?
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Because Trans men ARE men. They have blue brains. And male vaginas. And feelz. And to disagree is to be a bigoted transphobe.

Or reality is on the blink...

LaurieFairyCake · 31/10/2018 19:24

It's disgusting that the gay men didn't want to shag the transmans vagina

You know it's DISCRIMINATION right?!?

Very soon this won't be allowed and a gay man is going to HAVE TO legally or they will go to prison for a HATE CRIME

Or we could all wake up to normal life again

GreeboIsMySpiritAnimal · 31/10/2018 19:24

I really hope this sort of thing continues. The tide will turn once it starts affecting men.

Knicknackpaddyflak · 31/10/2018 19:27

An acquaintance is a transman who very much identifies as a gay man and whose ideal is a sexual relationship with a homosexual man. It's no different to transwomen who identify as lesbians and desperately want sexual relationships with homosexual women who are willing to accept their penis as a female organ and stretch the boundaries of their sexual attraction.

heresyandwitchcraft · 31/10/2018 19:28

Don't worry! I am sure TELI is on the case!
Have we heard condemnations of this sauna from Harrop, Jones et al?
I assume a TRA petition has been started?

R0wantrees · 31/10/2018 19:30

from the article:

"Jason said: ‘A staff member came over and requested I leave… as I was not allowed because of my genitals.’

When Jason protested, he says the member of staff simply repeated it was a ‘male space’.

The trans man then showed the sauna employee his passport with his male gender marker.

He claims the member of staff repeated it was a male space. The staff member allegedly said if he ‘tits and a dick,’ it’d be fine – but since he has a vagina, it’s not."

‘We have had confirmation from the council that if someone has a GRC [Gender Recognition Certificate] or ID confirming they are male, we would not be in breach of our licence."

#ManFriday demonstrated the ease with which one can change a driving licence from Female to Male earlier this year (it was also changed back again very easily):

manfridayuk.org/2018/04/20/self-id-and-driving-licences/

I wonder if the Sauna will be implementing the proposed Swim England policy (currently withdrawn) and in future 're-educating their customers?

QuietContraryMary · 31/10/2018 19:30

This has happened before, there was some sort of weekly gay sauna event where they told a vagina owner to go fuck himself, and as a result they got called out as evil transphobes and banned from the city pride festival.

Sorry I don't have a link to hand.