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Wtf is wrong with me.. photo included TMI

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deadembarrased · 17/09/2026 15:58

Woke up yesterday to a nawing pain where my knickers sit on my right leg. Thought oh I'm just getting fat and need bigger knickers.

Today I woke up feeling like shit. I can barely move my leg. It's agongy I cannot walk to see this monsteristy. There is a larged raised redness around it. I cannot get to the GP i have a meeting in the morning I cannot miss.
I feel really shit, keep getting cold as well. I thought infected hair folicie but it looks worse. Would show the large red patch around it but I'm embarrassed enough showing this. Please help 😭

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EstherGreenwood63 · 18/09/2026 07:02

Confessionsofa40yrold · 18/09/2026 05:22

Yes because how insane to post about a medical emergency on mumsnet rather than actually go and get medical advice from a & e. Alls well that ends well.

You seem like a truly horrible person. 💐

Iocanepowder · 18/09/2026 07:11

Hope you are feeling better this morning op and that you manage to make your appt or rearrange it.

deadembarrased · 18/09/2026 07:20

Morning, still feeling like crap. They gave me some painkillers last night and managed to sleep through. Still hooked up to antibiotics and it's not gone down much yet but isn't get worse so bonus.
Ex is bringing up my laptop to the hospital before school run the nurses said I can use the WiFi for the meeting so trying to make myself feel semi human for it.

OP posts:
Gettingbysomehow · 18/09/2026 07:21

deadembarrased · 17/09/2026 20:41

Just up at a&e been put on iv antibiotics. Infected abcess and cellitius. 😫 redness grew twice the size from when I drew around. Thank you for telling me to go, saved my life more than likely!

Well done OP. Get better soon.

TremendousFlatulence · 18/09/2026 07:22

Seriously @Confessionsofa40yrold - when you've made a tit of yourself like you have the best thing you can do is STFU, stop drilling down, disappear, name change and reassess your ability or otherwise to give useful advice.
You look increasingly foolish with every post you make.

Shadesofscarlett · 18/09/2026 07:25

Get well soon! I wish they could reschedule your meeting today. Am sure they would understand but ofc I know how important it is for you to get it done. Could you maybe say hello on camera then switch it off for the middle bit.

Studyunder · 18/09/2026 07:26

I’m so glad you got the treatment last night and that you’re going to manage the meeting. Hope it goes well and that you can fully rest and recover after 💐

Iamnotalemming · 18/09/2026 07:28

Get well soon OP.
Can't pour from an empty cup and all that.

Ahwelltoobad · 18/09/2026 07:31

Good luck with the meeting today, and I hope you get better soon!

Sadwork · 18/09/2026 07:34

Good luck today.

ThatHangryRubyReader · 18/09/2026 07:38

deadembarrased · 18/09/2026 07:20

Morning, still feeling like crap. They gave me some painkillers last night and managed to sleep through. Still hooked up to antibiotics and it's not gone down much yet but isn't get worse so bonus.
Ex is bringing up my laptop to the hospital before school run the nurses said I can use the WiFi for the meeting so trying to make myself feel semi human for it.

I am beyond glad you went in that is simply horrible. I hope the meeting goes well.

Fleetheart · 18/09/2026 07:38

So pleased that you got there and are getting treated.

Kez145 · 18/09/2026 07:41

I am so glad you went in. My mum died of sepsis in May. Stuff like this isn’t to be messed around with. Please look after yourself.

deadembarrased · 18/09/2026 07:42

Iamnotalemming · 18/09/2026 07:28

Get well soon OP.
Can't pour from an empty cup and all that.

Yeah the doctors already lectured me. Apparently with my medical history I should be taking it easy and they surprised I haven't landed myself in hostipal before now. But what's a sen parent to do? Its not like I can down arms and go eh doesn't matter anymore, wouldn't be so bad if the LA/school system dn't want to fight me on every sodding thing. Grin i have an echp mediation next week too and new medical equipment training for dc hopefully I'm home for those.
Might tell them to chop me leg off just to hurry things along. 😂

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Jaichangecentfoisdenom · 18/09/2026 07:46

Oh, dear, @deadembarrased, I'm so sorry to read that, but very glad you are now being treated for it. Sending you lots of good wishes and empathy, and I really hope your meeting goes as well as it possibly can. Flowers

dreamingofgoodhair · 18/09/2026 07:46

SquirrelsAreGo · 18/09/2026 01:19

You absolutely cannot stop the iv in the 1st 24 hrs with cellulitis like this.

DH got cellulitis and now has the joy of getting it really easily. The 1st time he was in hospital for 3 days, and then came home with an IV and was visited 3 times a day by a doctor or nurse (not in the UK, obviously).

We got so much information that time, I wish everyone knew.

Amongst it all was the necessity to be really really accurate with charting/taking the antibiotics if another time he was given tablets. The drop in coverage by even an hour or 2 can give the bug a chance to overrun the medicine which would be even worse.

He's had it three times since, once iv, twice tablets.

I understand the fear of missing the appt, but as a patent in similar circs, and currently flat on her back for 5 weeks, it is so important we look after our selves 1st.

You can get a letter from the hospital or send the interview people a redacted version of your discharge summary to show you were in hospital. And then, if they don't find you and new time soon, make some noise.

This is your opportunity to sit still for a couple of days, try and lean into it. You body is going to be using a LOT of energy to heal. Sleep or snooze as much as you can. See it as the enforced break it is.

I’m not telling her to stop them altogether. I’m saying there are ways round it. We regularly send people home in between doses. They then either come back to the day unit or a bed if there is one.
IV doses are spaced out. You can have one at 10pm and the next one at 6am depending on the course.
If there are 6 people on a ward on IVABS at 6am they won’t all be getting them on the dot as the staffing ratios won’t allow it.

BeKhakiReader · 18/09/2026 07:47

Single parents of sen children are bloody superheroes.

Fingers crossed the iv antibiotics get you better asap. Make sure you tell the person you’re meeting with what’s happened. Xxx

Iliketulips · 18/09/2026 07:54

I followed this thread yesterday, so glad you didn't leave it any longer to get treatment. Hope you can get through the meeting and it goes well. After that, make sure you rest and stay in hospital as long as they'll let you, ie don't be pressurised by ex to leave early. When you do leave, would he be amenable to looking after DS a bit more I next few days, maybe doing one of two things that benefit DS, ie getting easy food in?

PrettyLittleRose · 18/09/2026 08:03

Confessionsofa40yrold · 18/09/2026 05:13

Seriously get over yourself. You have no idea of my history and if I’m a medic or not. I haven’t pretended anything. People come on here and ask opinions and I gave mine. This isn’t a&e and it isn’t the place to get a medical diagnosis. Just because you don’t agree with my opinion doesn’t give you the right to harp on about me like I’m some kind of monster. If you don’t like other people giving opinion then move on.

Oh my gosh you're doubling down! 🙈

PrettyLittleRose · 18/09/2026 08:05

TremendousFlatulence · 18/09/2026 07:22

Seriously @Confessionsofa40yrold - when you've made a tit of yourself like you have the best thing you can do is STFU, stop drilling down, disappear, name change and reassess your ability or otherwise to give useful advice.
You look increasingly foolish with every post you make.

This. ^ Know when to stop @Confessionsofa40yrold You gave really REALLY bad advice, that could have caused serious harm to the OP.

At least do the decent thing, and say sorry, and admit you are wrong. I'm cringing for you. 😬

PrettyLittleRose · 18/09/2026 08:06

deadembarrased · 18/09/2026 07:20

Morning, still feeling like crap. They gave me some painkillers last night and managed to sleep through. Still hooked up to antibiotics and it's not gone down much yet but isn't get worse so bonus.
Ex is bringing up my laptop to the hospital before school run the nurses said I can use the WiFi for the meeting so trying to make myself feel semi human for it.

Sorry you're still feeling crap, but at least you did the right thing, and got it dealt with, (and didn't take the appalling advice that certain posters gave!) 😬

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Iocanepowder · 18/09/2026 08:07

Ah i’m glad it sounds like you’re still getting to the meeting so that wasn’t another thing to worry about for you.

I also hope your ex is taking you more seriously now and should apologise.

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 18/09/2026 08:13

Good to hear you are being well looked after, OP. So glad you're on the mend and the antibiotics are beinh given.❤️✨️

Hopefully those who gave terrible advice on here will be more mindful in future. Cellulitis is dreadful and serious, I think I had it once and the GP was deadly serious when she said it could have ended up in hospital with iv antibiotics.

Captivatingcapybara · 18/09/2026 08:15

Wishing you well @deadembarrased , so glad you are in the right place. As a SEN parent I get it, there is no respite, just multiple fights. Wishing you well for the appt today and that you are on thr mend soon.

diddl · 18/09/2026 08:30

All the best for the meeting & your recovery Op.

Hopefully you manage to rest for as long as you need.

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