The RF bent over backwards to welcome Meghan, offering several different sources of advice, mentors, a dossier of information etc, M rejected all, saying “ I don’t need any of this - I have Harry”. THAT was the problem
And where has that information come from? Tame journalists on the royal rota? Who are all completely objective of course? No doubt some of the people she encountered were kind and helpful. To me it’s not improbable that she met with some people who were quite snobby about her though. If Catherine encountered that, why wouldn’t it apply to M?
Meghan never intended to stay in the UK or to work for The Firm. Whatever the RF did, she was going to find fault
You categorically know what was in her mind and what her intentions were when she married?
It’s not her fault that she grew up in USA. Of course it’s harder settling in to a country that is completely foreign to you. To me it seemed quite a natural impulse for her to want to return home. I’m surprised she has come back once more to the UK though!
Harry chose very badly and a lot of people have suffered for it
I don’t like to assume others are bad but what I do know is that hurt people hurt others. And the solution does not lie in continuing the hurt and in issuing more orders and edicts but in trying to spend time together and attempting to reconcile. Harry’s supposed “crimes” aren’t so bad that they can’t be talked about and forgiven.
If the RF can tolerate and harbour AMW for over a decade knowing what he did, they can certainly be a bit more tolerant towards Harry.
The leader of the C of E should understand this. No doubt he listens to the parable of the prodigal son at least once a year.
Some will say, as they have on here, that not all family disputes should be resolved, and that’s absolutely right. Some can’t be, or it shouldn’t be attempted.
But I think if we are burdened with a hereditary monarchy then it’s up to them to do the best they can to resolve this, or they risk having this soap opera continue throughout W’s reign, never mind that of KCIII’s, and that is not remotely beneficial to the UK.