I am sorry that happened to you Theinflictuswithrictusgames
I don't defend that either. It's horrid, nasty and unnecessary.
I do not support aggressive posting from either side of the argument.
On the threads I have posted on, it hasn't been the case that "most" of the unpleasantness comes from Sussex supporters. I've seen a lot of condescension and group unpleasantness aimed at those who dare to suggest that the RF might bear some of the responsibility for the rift.
Genuine posters who go against the majority get pilloried.
They have been rounded on, memes have been posted, entirely parallel conversations have been engineered around them, cheese anyone? It's been like fifth form bullying sometimes. All supposedly light hearted but in reality, not very much!
It won't put me off but I am regularly accused of not posting in good faith, not having a right to post here, being a member of the Sussex Squad, asked why I am bothered and basically told to go away. I've had post after post replied to with a personal unpleasant comment that's nothing to do with the topic discussed. That's not very pleasant either!
And sorry but the question of whether hate has been directed at H & M is a subjective one! Nothing to do with trying to start a fight, I call it where I see it but I don't say you are not allowed to see it a different way.