Why?
She was with loved ones. And people were expressing how much they cared. If she was aware of anything going on around her, perhaps she would have know the shock and out pouring of affection before she went.
She probably wasn't aware, so it made no difference to her anyway.
Its the family its hardest on. But that was always going to be the case and they would have been fully aware of the storm which would happen and how they'd have to deal with it.
I don't think it makes any difference.