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Can I still wear bodycon? Brutally honest answers please.

260 replies

ChippyPickledEggs · 09/11/2020 13:14

Have attached photos. I am a slim (size 8) hourglass. However I am also 45 and have given birth to 3 children. My stomach has a slight curve even with control panels in my tights or underwear.

Can I still wear bodycon? On a good day I think I can. On a bad day I worry I'm kidding myself. My friends won't tell me the truth.

Can I still wear bodycon? Brutally honest answers please.
Can I still wear bodycon? Brutally honest answers please.
OP posts:
sarahc336 · 09/11/2020 13:15

After 3 kids to look like this it's a definite yes from me!!

noseresearch · 09/11/2020 13:19

Of course, don’t think age matters - you have a great body!
Although I’m not a huge fan of that dress sorry but that’s beside the point

Hayeahnobut · 09/11/2020 13:25

You have a lovely figure, but that dress does nothing for you.

ChippyPickledEggs · 09/11/2020 13:27

No that's cool, noseresarch - I bought it for work (I'm front of house - reception and lecturn at posh hotel/restaurant.)

OP posts:
moronseverywhere1 · 09/11/2020 13:31

@Hayeahnobut does nothing for her except show off her beautiful figure Hmm

Op, you look great, the dress looks great.

ilovecharlie · 09/11/2020 13:33

Fabulous figure, you look great. I like your dress.

Scbchl · 09/11/2020 13:34

Absolutely yes!

Sheena99 · 09/11/2020 13:35

Don't think you have any problem carrying it off, I've only had two kids and couldn't do it as well😭. You have a lovely figure, don't be worrying about it.

CrazyOldBagLady · 09/11/2020 13:35

Yes you look very slim but with a lovely feminine shape. You can wear whatever you feel comfortable in.

Purplecatshopaholic · 09/11/2020 13:35

I am a similar size, shape, and age, to you. You look better than me though! I also have good days where I think yes, you got this! And bad days where I think Hell, no! I tend to go with it and dress how I feel, lol, so bodycon on a good day, and baggy styles on a ‘fat tummy’ day.

LimpidPools · 09/11/2020 13:35

Yes, you absolutely can. But even bodycon can be too small and I think that dress is a bit too small for you.

Lovebug06 · 09/11/2020 13:36

You look amazing! You can definately wear bodycon

Chathamhouserules · 09/11/2020 13:37

You look fabulous! Wear it with pride!

gubbbbbddaaaa · 09/11/2020 13:38

I'm the same age with the same figure and I wear clothes that fir my form ..I feel blessed to have an hourglass shape and so should you ..wear the dress! 😘

BusySittingDown · 09/11/2020 13:38

Definitely!

TheOrigRights · 09/11/2020 13:38

You look fine OP.

I would feel SO self conscious wearing that dress - that people would be looking at my arse. My issue I guess and a bit daft cos I go out running in running tights and fitted tops.

GameSetMatch · 09/11/2020 13:38

Yes you can wear a bodycon you look great, your mirrors need a wipe though, it’s my pet hate dirty mirrors 😬

Otamot · 09/11/2020 13:38

The dress does nothing for you except show off your slim, feminine figure.

Fatted · 09/11/2020 13:39

What do you mean your friends don't tell you the truth?

What do you really hope to achieve by posting this OP?

No amount of reassurance from anyone will magically give you the confidence. You need to find that yourself.

FWIW, you look great in it. But even if you didn't, you could still wear it. The fashion police won't come and arrest you.

ABitOdd · 09/11/2020 13:39

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This has been withdrawn at OP's request.

ShirleyPhallus · 09/11/2020 13:40

You look fine but clean your mirror FGS, a dusty dirty mirror is a pet hate of mine Grin

ShirleyPhallus · 09/11/2020 13:40

Ha ha, cross post @GameSetMatch

LilyLongJohn · 09/11/2020 13:41

Yes absolutely you can wear bodycon, you look fab

Emily29 · 09/11/2020 13:41

100% yes!

RUOKHon · 09/11/2020 13:41

You have a wonderful figure but the dress is doing nothing for it. I agree it looks too small. Sometimes I size up in something so that the fabric has a bit of room to drape in a more flattering way. I just think you need a bigger size.