Which Vibrator?

[Menomaman]

Hi,

I wonder if any other ladies out there might be able to advise.... I am currently going through the menopause, went onto HRT and as often happens during the menopause, my sex drive went off a cliff! And has been very low for the past few years....

Except... about two months ago I had an erotic dream and it triggered something and suddenly the urge came back so strongly! Honestly I am like a horny teenager, it's so weird and confusing! My husband got used to me never really being interested anymore, now he can't keep up lol :D

Sooo... I am looking for a vibrator. I do have a rampant rabbit that I have had for years but tbh it's way too noisy (don't want the whole house to know what I am up to every time!) and also where I used to find it really effective, I now find my body must have changed, maybe I am more sensitive and the settings are never quite right, either too intense or not enough.

I have heard about a toy called the womaniser which I hear is a game changer but it's quite expensive, don't necessarily want to splurge that much if it doesn't suit me... just looking for some viewpoints and thoughts really, what has worked for other people? And also the noise factor - the quieter the better!

Thanks so much!! :)

Love Honey has a Black Friday sale on.
So I’m investing in the G-spot vibe finally!
Not the one I was originally going to go for, although that’s currently on offer for a bargainous £29.99. But I decided to go for the Desire Luxury Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator. Mainly cos the reviews said it was bigger, ha ha!

Oooh thanks I’m off to check out the sale!

Defo worth a look. If you spot anything, let us know!

Hey @SittingKitty How are things with you? Thanks for the heads up! I haven't looked at Lovehoney but I may have wandered onto the Hello Nancy site and bought me an Avo toy! Which is currently on offer too!

I have not tried it yet, I love the Lemon so much, apparently the Avo is more powerful so it's possible it could be too much for me! But we shall soon see!

Let us know how you get on with your purchase! I will update with news of the Avo soon! 🥑😁

@Menomaman Avo looks great. Do let us know what it’s like. I’ll report back on the G-spot one!

Hola chicas! Well I have tried out the Avo 🥑 so I just thought I would post with some first impressions. Firstly, it is powerful - more powerful than the Lemon. Secondly, although it says it is, it is not quiet. It is quite loud and buzzy.

I started off alternating between the first and second settings and eventually settled on the first one as the second was too intense. I am used to the Lemon and it took a little bit of adjusting to the shape - hitting the right spot with it felt more difficult than with the Lemon at first but I think that will just take practice.

Once I did get it in the right place, I came quite quickly with an orgasm that was almost painful as once my clit was super-sensitised the intensity was a bit too much again! I need to practice really getting it in the right position and moving it around depending on what stage I am at. I think I will enjoy it a lot once I get the hang of it though but I will let you know once my technique improves!

I received the Ann Summers power silicone bullet today (currently on offer at £21 instead of £30) and I orgasmed within a minute so very much recommend that. It is very powerful even on the first setting

That would definitely be too powerful for me!

I’ve had a Quick Look on LH but feeling a bit meh about the sale items. Probably for the best as I don’t need anything!

It's DW birthday coming up. To avoid reading all the details, was there a 'must have' conclusion??

@Gymbunny2025 it may well prove too much for me but I will keep trying for a bit at least now I have splurged the cash! How are you finding the Enigma Wave now btw - now you have had chance to get properly used to it? ☺️

@Kerkyra2024 sounds great, nice one - I haven't had a chance to look at the LH sale yet, might pop on there tonight! 😁

@yorkshireteabagman For me, the absolute must-have is the Lemon clit-suction toy from the Hello Nancy website - it's little and cute and would make a lovely present too - and it's good to use as a couple. Others night have different recommendations but that would be mine 🍋☺️

The enigma wave I still love it’s my go to for when I have the house to myself (noisy!) I just still really struggle to get it in the right position it’s frustrating!

@yorkshireteabagmani have to agree- I don’t have the lemon but I do think it would make a very cute present (assuming she likes receiving that sort of thing as a gift) and is a bit different.

ok thanks, she does have something similar for clit but it's not shaped like a lemon! I assume it more of a cosmetic thing and they are generally doing the same job? I know she found it just ok rather than life changing and only really uses it when the charge in the wand is empty

@yorkshireteabagman Ah ok, well my next recommendation would probably have been a wand but she already has one... presume she has got/tried a rabbit?

If she’s already got a favourite toy I would buy her a different gift.

Yes might be best - or involve her in the choice? Sex toy preference is so individual, for me the Lemon is a game-changer but we are just made differently! ☺️

I'm a bit late to the thread, but have read with interest.

Not based on a recommendation from here, but I got the LH Indulge G-spot and Clitoral Suction Simulator a couple of weeks ago. I finally got around to trying it today. (I had intended to practice with it whilst my husband was away, so we could play with it together, but was unwell, and really not interested.)

I was definitely underwhelmed and disappointed, especially having read the reviews on the LH website with tales of powerful orgasms and squirting (never done that before).

I suspect (hope) that it was because I didn't have it correctly positioned, and that with more practice, it will show potential!

Alongside that, I was sent a Magic Bullet as a free gift - had a very satisfactory clit orgasm with that , and I think it might be fun to use on my husband as well.

Incidentally, I found out, after I had spent a decent sum of money on LH, that they appear on at least one of the cashback websites, so can get some money back

@HurdyGurdy19 I have the LH Indulge, and that’s one of my favourite toys. I have to have the clit setting on high and with the internal bit, there’s two settings that I prefer. And I use lube. Maybe have a few more goes and see how you get on. Good luck!

Thanks for the avo review @Menomaman - it does sound very intense!

I have now tried out my new g-spot LH toy, and I am impressed! It’s actually better than the Bellesa thruster I bought (which was super spendy!). It packs a punch - 8 different settings and multiple different intensity levels. I used it with the now infamous Lemon! And boom!
One very happy customer. And a bargain at £40!

My next go will be the LH g-spot combined with my Honey Birdette Venus. I think that will also be very effective.

@HurdyGurdy19 hello! Welcome to the thread. We are always interested in new perspectives ☺️

@SittingKitty I think I have you to thank for introducing me to the now legendary Lemon! Honestly, this is the most life-changing toy I have come across (pun intended!) It makes me squirt! Nearly every time now! I never did that before!

With the Avo, I have found it's good to use together with the Lemon - use the Avo until I just get too sensitive and then bring in the Lemon! @SittingKitty you mentioned using toy combos - very interesting - how do others combine toys? Would be interested to know what combines well...

Why thanks @Menomaman - I’m not sure if it was me. But I am certainly another big Lemon fan! 🍋🫶🏻 It’s a cracking toy. It hasn’t yet made me squirt. I will have to work on that. 😉

Nope no rabbit. She commented once about not wanting toys inside her so it's never been tried.
I've bought something completely different

@yorkshireteabagman Fair. I guess if you wanted to throw in a little extra to spice up her life, you could always try the bullet vibe mentioned by @Kerkyra2024 Only £21 from LH I think she said so if it doesn't hit the spot it's no biggie....

I hope your wife has a lovely birthday ☺️

@SittingKitty Yes keep trying! I used it lots of times before it I squirted, but since it happened the first time it just keeps happening! 🍋 ☺️

I’m looking into a hands free toy I can wear in my knickers that’s just external. But that’s to use when I’m focusing on my OH. So might not be a good birthday gift!

Hi All, I can't seem to find the Lemon toy, where did you get it from please?

@KellBell1987 we can’t post links (they get deleted) but search for Nancy Lemon Toy or the website is hellonancy.com

Enjoy! 🍋