Which Vibrator?

[Menomaman]

Hi,

I wonder if any other ladies out there might be able to advise.... I am currently going through the menopause, went onto HRT and as often happens during the menopause, my sex drive went off a cliff! And has been very low for the past few years....

Except... about two months ago I had an erotic dream and it triggered something and suddenly the urge came back so strongly! Honestly I am like a horny teenager, it's so weird and confusing! My husband got used to me never really being interested anymore, now he can't keep up lol :D

Sooo... I am looking for a vibrator. I do have a rampant rabbit that I have had for years but tbh it's way too noisy (don't want the whole house to know what I am up to every time!) and also where I used to find it really effective, I now find my body must have changed, maybe I am more sensitive and the settings are never quite right, either too intense or not enough.

I have heard about a toy called the womaniser which I hear is a game changer but it's quite expensive, don't necessarily want to splurge that much if it doesn't suit me... just looking for some viewpoints and thoughts really, what has worked for other people? And also the noise factor - the quieter the better!

Thanks so much!! :)

@whiskeytruth good to know, I will check it out!

I buy mine from Ann Summers the Rose Lix is super effective. Looking at getting the thrusting rampant rabbit next week it will be my first rabbit toy so looking forward to trying it out

@Kerkyra2024 oh great, thanks for the advice ☺️ I think someone else mentioned the rose toy, is that a suction toy?

I am new to Mumsnet, why do the moderators hide some of the answers?

I have no idea why my post has been hidden. I was just recommending (with links) some vibrators I have!

I’ll try again, without links, in case that was the problem.
I have the Nancy Lemon that you mentioned. Very good.

I also have a few from Honey Birdette, that I use together generally, for max effect.
Venus & Aphrodite (I got them in the sale)

Then I have the Indulge from Lovehoney, which is a clit suction & g-spot one. Currently on offer!

I think links aren’t allowed anymore

@SittingKitty how would you rate the indulge?

Ahhh, I didn’t know that. Would explain why my post was hidden then.

People were sending links of child SA I believe and they’ve been a lot stricter (rightly so)

The clit suction on the Lemon is better - that is crazy good. But the Indulge has the benefit of the g-spot element too. So double whammy. I like it, and use it, a lot!

The Nancy Lemon one. Yay!!
But the Indulge one I'm unsure of. Do you find it worth buying? I guess it'll do "more" than others but is it the "more" that is worthwhile?
Sorry, not expressing myself well (must be the subject!); I suppose I'm just asking whether I should get another one!

@NPET I guess it depends what you already have, and what you’re after. I like it cos I like the dual functionality of clit & g-spot (and it has different speeds & patterns). I like the all areas being stimulated.

Certainly sounds good. I must admit that apart from the Nancy Lemon one I've mainly had Rabbit ones. But the more I think about what you're saying the more I'm determined to experiment!
Thx for talking like this and for replying so quickly.

I’ve got a rabbit, but tbh it’s just gathering dust! I haven’t used it in years now. All the others ones I listed have totally surpassed it. Poor relegated rabbit 😂

Oh my mini rabbit one is my goto at the mo. Great for travelling too. £17.50 was never better spent!
But I'll certainly move on & try.
Thx again.

I’m not a big rabbit fan either. But I do think I’d love g spot and suction. Just so hard to decide which one will be great (if any) for me!

Good luck researching @Gymbunny2025
When I was looking into them I found reviews on various websites helpful

The Rose Lix simulates a tongue licking although I'm sure they do have one that do a suction as well

Oh my, I want to get them all!! Thanks so much for the intel everyone! Really interested in the Indulge and in most of the others too being perfectly honest! 😄 Think I just need to take a chance on a couple to find out what works best and go from there ☺️ Good to know the Indulge is on offer!

@NPET Just as an update, I bought the Peachy Mini Rabbit today! It was on the website Notino and it is currently only £14 something if you buy it through the app! It's so cute! Looking forward to receiving that as my initial purchase and next stop Lovehoney for more orgasm-inducing delights! 😁

Great!
£14?
I'm jelly!

I know! On special offer then an additional 10% discount if you bought through the app - although you did then have to pay postage and packaging - still a bit of a bargain! 😃

Please let me know how you get on with it (I don't mean in detail lol).
But we all like different things, so feel free to tell me if it's not for you!
I'll tell you one great thing I find about it - it's compact enough to slip into your bag or case if you travel.

I’ve never heard of that website @Menomaman - I’ll have to take a look!

No worries, I will @NPET ☺️
@SittingKitty there's various stuff on there, tbh I didn't know you could buy sex toys on there

I have also bought a wand-type vibe from Lovehoney and I was looking for the Nancy Lemon clit suction toy but I couldn't find it on there? 🤔