Which Vibrator?

[Menomaman]

Hi,

I wonder if any other ladies out there might be able to advise.... I am currently going through the menopause, went onto HRT and as often happens during the menopause, my sex drive went off a cliff! And has been very low for the past few years....

Except... about two months ago I had an erotic dream and it triggered something and suddenly the urge came back so strongly! Honestly I am like a horny teenager, it's so weird and confusing! My husband got used to me never really being interested anymore, now he can't keep up lol :D

Sooo... I am looking for a vibrator. I do have a rampant rabbit that I have had for years but tbh it's way too noisy (don't want the whole house to know what I am up to every time!) and also where I used to find it really effective, I now find my body must have changed, maybe I am more sensitive and the settings are never quite right, either too intense or not enough.

I have heard about a toy called the womaniser which I hear is a game changer but it's quite expensive, don't necessarily want to splurge that much if it doesn't suit me... just looking for some viewpoints and thoughts really, what has worked for other people? And also the noise factor - the quieter the better!

Thanks so much!! :)

Thanks @Menomaman
I’m not sure the lemon is on LH. I think it’s only on their own website, search ‘hello nancy’

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Oh brill, thanks, I will do!! 😁🍋

Just a quick heads up to anyone following this thread who may be interested... thanks to @SittingKitty I found and bought the Nancy Lemon toy from the Hello Nancy site - and in case anyone else is tempted, it is currently half price on their website with a further 25% off code.

Another bargain, yay!😁

Wow @Menomaman that is a bargain, great find! Enjoy the lemon when it arrives, I’m sure you will!

Is it different to other suction toys?

I am not sure @Gymbunny2025 - it's the first suction toy I will be trying - I can let you know if it is good! But comparative to other suction toys I won't know I'm afraid... It does look very cute as it is literally a lemon! 😄

I came here specifically to look for recommendations… and Mumsnet didn’t disappoint.
Never had a suction toy.
Lemon ordered tonight, can’t wait to try it out

@SexEdInMy50s oh that's great - would love to know how you find it!

I am loving this chat, it has helped me tremendously - thanks so much everyone! Still waiting for toys to arrive, can't wait to try them either! 😄

An update to my post about looking at purchasing a thrusting rampant rabbit I now have it in my possession but need to wait till I get home to use I'm sure my friend wouldn't appreciate me using it in the room with her 😂😂😂

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I congratulate you on this purchase!!

Enjoy!! (.….when solo!! 😆)

Well it has been like Christmas Day here! My Peachy mini rabbit arrived and also my wand!

@NPET I have already tried the rabbit and I am peachy keen! 🍑 🤭
This is a really great little product! Nicely angled for my g-spot and managed to get the right amount of buzz on the clit. It took me a little while to get used to the settings - I don't really like the variable ones, I prefer the constant ones that don't change but I found the right one and settled into the groove. The vibrations are deep and rumbly which I find much better than my other rabbit, which was kind of intense and buzzy and could sort of numb me out a bit!! Well, a bit of a long review... but the headline is, it works and I love it!! Thanks so much for recommending it 😁

The wand is still charging.... 😜

So glad you like it!
It's definitely my 'goto' one - the size makes it SO good for travelling (I don't mean internationally and risking some creep revealing it, but within this country).
Yes I seem to remember my bff finding the settings more difficult than on her others when she first had it, but she hasn't said anything against it since. I'm used to adjusting settings anyway.
Always good to talk to other women (and girls) about such "essentials" in life!
I remember an ex of my bff seeing it and saying "it just proves you've got penis envy".
"Oh no", she said, "I wouldn't want a penis. THIS is so much better!".
Sian x

I actually ordered a new toy today too after being inspired by this thread 😂

@NPET
I mean.... can a penis vibrate....?? 😂
Yes perfect for popping in your bag... as you said maybe not abroad... that could be awks in customs haha! 😁

@Gymbunny2025 Oh fantastic, what did you get? I love this thread, it's been invaluable to me. Mumsnet and the City lol 😄

@Kerkyra2024 Did the rabbit live up to expectations...?? 😛

Lelo enigma wave

I’m intrigued by a thrusting toy!
Pray tell more… @Kerkyra2024

That looks bloody good!
Please report back… I’m tempted to upgrade my LH one.

And it looks like it'd make a useful coat hook if it ever packed up.

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guess I can cancel the ikea trip. I love multi purpose sex toys!

That looks incredible!! Would be very interested to know what it is like as well!

I’ll report back! I wanted it to be suction but it does look so good otherwise. Should be for the £££!

I know!! At least it's on sale! Most expensive coat hook ever!! 😆

@Menomaman
A vibrating penis? Well, I've seen men shake them hard!
But seriously no, a vibe is infinitely better. When boys come attached with one, we might compare them with the rabbit lol.

You could try having sex on the tumble dryer - that might do it.

I don't need a penis to have sex on a tumble dryer!!