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Which Vibrator?

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Menomaman · 30/07/2025 22:00

Hi,

I wonder if any other ladies out there might be able to advise.... I am currently going through the menopause, went onto HRT and as often happens during the menopause, my sex drive went off a cliff! And has been very low for the past few years....

Except... about two months ago I had an erotic dream and it triggered something and suddenly the urge came back so strongly! Honestly I am like a horny teenager, it's so weird and confusing! My husband got used to me never really being interested anymore, now he can't keep up lol :D

Sooo... I am looking for a vibrator. I do have a rampant rabbit that I have had for years but tbh it's way too noisy (don't want the whole house to know what I am up to every time!) and also where I used to find it really effective, I now find my body must have changed, maybe I am more sensitive and the settings are never quite right, either too intense or not enough.

I have heard about a toy called the womaniser which I hear is a game changer but it's quite expensive, don't necessarily want to splurge that much if it doesn't suit me... just looking for some viewpoints and thoughts really, what has worked for other people? And also the noise factor - the quieter the better!

Thanks so much!! :)

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SittingKitty · 04/04/2026 11:21

Whilst I’m here, who got the LELO toy and posted it on here - the enigma I think it was?
I also bought one quite recently. And I have to say I am enjoying that very much! ☺️

Mags1863 · 11/04/2026 00:23

Satisfyer for me every time, climax quickly and suddenly with mine .

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