Blowjobs...how often do you do it?

[ScottishStottie]

Curious to know what the 'normal' is in terms of frequency of giving blowjobs, and if you actually enjoy giving them??

For me, im not a big fan of giving them, but more out of laziness than anything else. Dp usually gets one when im on my period, although some months if its a bit heavier then my cramps are worse and i dont want to. So he maybe gets one every couple of months.

He would never say anything, but given how grateful and happy he seems when he does get one, i imagine he would like this to be more frequent.

Curious to know whether i am being lazy or whether its an acceptable amount? 😂

there's a bit of bj in our foreplay around 90% of the time I'd say. finishing that way is much less frequent but we both enjoy it when it happens. I go down on her around 50% of the time probably, and very often make her cum that way.

Love giving BJs. Always part of our lovemaking.
Just use your imagination he’ll soon tell you if he doesn’t like what your doing. Just imagine how you like to be aroused and let yourself go. You can throw in a bit of boob work as well most men love this.

I love them. Everytime we have sex it's how I get my husband 'going', and at the same time he is pleasing me. Rarely finish but it really turns him, and me on.

Stand alone thing probably twice a week?

I like to wake my DP up by going down on him in his sleep: he finds it incredibly arousing and it gives me a thrill. But usually I give a bit of a BJ as part of foreplay 90% of the time we have sex. Turns us both on. He doesn’t go down on me much but that’s fine my me. He’s great with his fingers!

Love giving them. DH is equally keen on oral, so we end up being mutually satisfied

We always finish with a BJ so about 5 times a week in a good week. He'd have 5 a day if he could lol!

I used to give them regularly but since DH isn’t willing to reciprocate that has dwindled drastically. I love doing it but I don’t see why he should get all the fun whilst I’m not.

^This. He hasn’t recopricated in over 8 years. Tbf be isn’t keen on going down and I wouldn’t like it if he insisted I gave him a blowjob if I didn’t really like it. I do like giving though so whilst i am less generous these days he still gets one probably every 6-8 weeks.

Usually as part of foreplay, cannot remember the last time DH finished like that, I do remember it takes a long time and involves hand work. I love giving.

Interestingly, I didn't used to like receiving at all so I didn't want that. However last session was after I had been massively turned on by something I had watched on TV and was super horny. It became 69, amazingly reciprocal and I came so hard. Absolutely brilliant, unexpected. Definitely doing that again.

I really enjoy it, every time.

@bitmynailbrokemytooth Just out of interest- what had you been watching on tv 🤔

God this is depressing and revealing. I presumed everyone did all the time!

I looooove giving them. Really turns me on. Any old way but specially 69.

Sex workers always say men want oral and now I can see why.

@Browtox

God this is depressing and revealing. I presumed everyone did all the time!

I looooove giving them. Really turns me on. Any old way but specially 69.

Sex workers always say men want oral and now I can see why.

Hahahaha ooooookay gold star for you

It really matters how old your man is. If they are 20 then you can give as many blowjobs as you/they like and it won't change your sex life. (I miss 20 year olds.) But if your man can cum once a day max then every "stand alone blow job" is a missed day in your sex life.

Just saying.

@notevenat20

It really matters how old your man is. If they are 20 then you can give as many blowjobs as you/they like and it won't change your sex life. (I miss 20 year olds.) But if your man can cum once a day max then every "stand alone blow job" is a missed day in your sex life.

Just saying.

That’s not totally true. I’ve been with older men who can go longer and more than younger, and no, no viagra there.

MorganKitten How old and how often could they do it?

Lol. Are you conducting an audit?

Lol. Are you conducting an audit?

Either that or bitterly jealous :)

@notevenat20

It really matters how old your man is. If they are 20 then you can give as many blowjobs as you/they like and it won't change your sex life. (I miss 20 year olds.) But if your man can cum once a day max then every "stand alone blow job" is a missed day in your sex life.

Just saying.

How old are you talking? My guys 41 and can go a few times a day still

I was thinking 40s and up. Your 41 year sounds impressive, especially if he can do that day after day. I haven't had sex with enough 40 year olds to do a scientific study but I feel an MN question coming on. At least I now know I don't need to have an affair with a 20 year old.

@notevenat20 the oldest partner I’ve had was 45 and he was an every day guy, my last ex was 41 and we had sex at least twice a day.

Usually every time we have sex from a quick one to start off to a very long one to finish 😜 DH loves them and I enjoy it too.

Most days. I really enjoy it and DP doesn't complain if I'm using him.

Part of our foreplay so most times we have sex. I quite enjoy the power of it!

I'd say about once a month. If I'm honest, I mostly do it to please him but if I'm in the mood I can find it a turn-on particularly if it is out of the bedroom. He loves it if I do it when we are snuggled up on the sofa and I have had some wine - often leads to passionate sex either on the sofa or in bed.