Blowjobs...how often do you do it?

[ScottishStottie]

Curious to know what the 'normal' is in terms of frequency of giving blowjobs, and if you actually enjoy giving them??

For me, im not a big fan of giving them, but more out of laziness than anything else. Dp usually gets one when im on my period, although some months if its a bit heavier then my cramps are worse and i dont want to. So he maybe gets one every couple of months.

He would never say anything, but given how grateful and happy he seems when he does get one, i imagine he would like this to be more frequent.

Curious to know whether i am being lazy or whether its an acceptable amount? 😂

When you do it as foreplay, how long are you actively giving a blowjob? When getting one dp comes quite quickly, so im aware of that when i want sex after...

Last night i threw in a bj as foreplay, but was probably only like 10 seconds or so. Does that count or should it be for longer?

In the early days most times but then later years maybe 2-3 times a month against having sex say 8 times a month.

But maybe only 1-2 times a year to orgasm
And never just for the sake of it.

To answer op, 2-3 mins before lock jaw sets in!

There's no 'should' OP - it's what you are comfortable with/ want. There is no standard you need to meet other than that.

@ScottishStottie

DW normally gets jaw ache and/or gives up after about 5 mins before we move on to something else.

I think once she made it to 10 mins, but that was a long time ago.

Hence I've never orgasmed from a BJ.

@ScottishStottie

When you do it as foreplay, how long are you actively giving a blowjob? When getting one dp comes quite quickly, so im aware of that when i want sex after...

Last night i threw in a bj as foreplay, but was probably only like 10 seconds or so. Does that count or should it be for longer?

Only an estimate of course, I don’t get the stopwatch out 😂 but I’d say at least 4/5 minutes if I’m the one doing it. He sometimes finishes but he can keep going so it doesn’t matter. He doesn’t do it as long for me, I don’t last as long so generally he will keep going until I tell him to stop.

It shouldn’t be x length of time, just however long you want to do it for.

I enjoy giving and receiving oral every time we have sex as part of foreplay... middle play and after play! Particularly like waking DP up with a morning BJ.
I disagree with comments that only men enjoy BJs. I get a great deal of satisfaction from pleasuring him.
I don't have any issue with his hand on the back of my head or angling my head off the edge of the bed (the view is hilarious!) It's not a porn thing and I don't feel like I have to do it. If I want to stop I just tap his leg and we move onto something else.
Interesting to read all the different viewpoints. Seems like the length of the relationship is a significant factor...

@PinotPony

You wake your DP up with a BJ?

He does know how lucky his is, right? Please tell me knows this?

I'd love to experience that, just once whilst on this mortal coil.

5 mins maybe? He wants deep throat all time and it makes me gag and cant breathe! Or he pushes me down which I hate but still do it

@PrawnSacrifice Yeah he knows!

@Healthyandhappy If you hate it, why are you doing it?

[quote PrawnSacrifice]@PinotPony

You wake your DP up with a BJ?

He does know how lucky his is, right? Please tell me knows this?

I'd love to experience that, just once whilst on this mortal coil.[/quote]
I wake up DH with a morning BJ every so often as well. Surely it’s not that rare?

@heartsonacake

Never had it in my life and doubt I ever will.

It must be amazing to have a partner that is into sex and feels horny and enthusiastic enough to do that.

I do feel so sad sometimes at what I'm missing out on.

My guy can stay hard for ages and my jaw aches but I love him to bits so will see it to completion although I'll get jaw ache for days and then swallow as it tastes ok and he loves it , his reaction is hot ! He gets one whenever he wants one or whenever I want to give him one which is all the time

@PinotPony i don't mind doing it but hate been pushed n if he does this I stop.

@Healthyandhappy Have you tried using your hand as a block so you can't physically be pushed any further down? So your whole hand is wrapped around the base of his cock and when your lips hit the top of your hand you stop. Use two hands if need be!

Sorry, just re-read that and realised it's the actual pushing act you don't like!

For those complaining of lock jaw, take a break, let your tongue do the work running over him and then return. No discomfort.

Pushing my head down further than my comfort zone though is not on!

@ScottishStottie

When you do it as foreplay, how long are you actively giving a blowjob? When getting one dp comes quite quickly, so im aware of that when i want sex after...

Last night i threw in a bj as foreplay, but was probably only like 10 seconds or so. Does that count or should it be for longer?

I would count a BJ as going all the way to ejaculation; 10 seconds of oral teasing as part of foreplay is not a BJ. However 10 seconds of oral teasing as part of foreplay is very acceptable!

I go down on DP pretty much every time we have sex. Usually as foreplay and sometimes I give him a blow job to finish. Don't give them as a stand alone act very often, maybe once a month or so, because I enjoy doing it so it usually always leads to sex. Dp is the only man I've ever actively enjoyed giving them to though, with others I would get really bored.

Always as part of foreoplay but never a stand alone event.

For those complaining of lock jaw, take a break, let your tongue do the work running over him and then return. No discomfort.

Yes of course I mean this shouldn't be like a root canal, where you just have to keep your jaws open and get it over with!! 😅

Anyhow BJs are healthy fur all - the vitamins from so erm are very good for women. Really. Like a daily dose of cod liver oil 😉

I’m 49 and have never been woken by a bj.
And in 4 ltr’s only 1 regularly let me finish

@Anotherblokelurking my husband has never come though oral either my me or anyone else but I would definitely say he’s had bjs

I quite like to wake someone with a bj. Or with some fondling and stroking...