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Weird comment moment on vaginas

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hesyetanothersketchyOLD · 16/09/2024 10:57

This wasn't a relationship, just a potential physical thing that actually fizzled out before it happened, but the guy in question said he wanted to see my vagina* to check how it looked become some vaginas "look like they've been run over". Anyway, attraction went away on his part (I didn't show him!), but this comment stood out to me. He said a few other questionable things, too.

Just wondering if anyone's come across someone who seemed to have standards for vaginas like that before? Is it a porn influence? 🤔

* Yes, he should have said vulva

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DryBiscuit · 19/09/2024 14:02

liverburd1 · 16/09/2024 11:08

I'd be really interested to know the responses to this.....

I'm currently single and not having sex with anyone so have no specific man in mind but I have real hang ups with my labia...I'm definitely not "pretty" in that area and looking like it's been run over is probably an accurate description.

I would absolutely block any man who said this or requested pictures and would have nothing to do with him (regardless of how good my vulva looked), but I do wonder if it would turn off nice/normal men who would be too polite to vocalise it.

I'm also extremely flat chested and I think the combination of both things is really knocking my confidence in terms of sexual relationships.

I'm early 40s and divorced with dc so not inexperienced. However it does seem to be becoming more of an issue in my own mind

If someone is that hung up about your body then they dont deserve you

You will find a good one eventually

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