Weird comment moment on vaginas

[hesyetanothersketchyOLD]

This wasn't a relationship, just a potential physical thing that actually fizzled out before it happened, but the guy in question said he wanted to see my vagina* to check how it looked become some vaginas "look like they've been run over". Anyway, attraction went away on his part (I didn't show him!), but this comment stood out to me. He said a few other questionable things, too.

Just wondering if anyone's come across someone who seemed to have standards for vaginas like that before? Is it a porn influence? 🤔

* Yes, he should have said vulva

No. This is not "how it plays out with men now".

Only with the ones that you need to stay as far as humanly possible away from at the first sniff of this bullshit.

There is never a reason that you should send a photograph of your vulva to a man because he want's to rate it, or check it out. Do not ever do this. Even if he is a doctor, or says that he is (if so he would know that it would be impossible to take a photograph of one's vagina, it's a bit dark up there. Preumably he means your vulva.) Men may have different expectations of vaginas, but you are not a person attached to a vagina, that is up for their scrutiny and judgment. Jesus christ alive. NO.

Man asks to inspect your jingo, tell him to fuck off and block the cunt. That kind of behaviour is the kind of shit only abusive woman hating arseholes would want to do. Bet you're glad you didn't DTD now I bet

I think he was negging you and would be a coercive misogynist nightmare. He sounds like he's been reading pick up artist books 🤮 and also watching too much porn 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

Anyone like that is not worth any form of effort.

Jeez, he sounds a real charmer!

I hate this sort of negging, it’s so demeaning.

My answer would have been “ Well off you pop, darling, mind the door doesn’t hit you on the arse on the way out” Said with a big cheery wave👋

Total block on every device!

Lucky escape, OP!

⬆️ And 100% this, of course!

I know! It's seemingly some disturbing mix of repulsion, primal attraction and perhaps even a certain... envy/resentment. A bit like how I imagine a repressed gay person might feel.

And the number of hoops that many of them expect a woman to jump through in order to be deemed attractive or "fuckable", e.g., complete hairlessness... It really doesn't seem compatible with their avowed raging horniness and sexual frustration. What a bunch of dysfunctional neurotics.

And I find it sad to see many women on this thread describing their vulva as "ugly" or in other negative terms. 🙁Compare the pride most men have in their dicks, even when it's at odds with reality! 😁

Part of the special charm of pornhub 🤮🤮 is being able to search for any physical feature that takes your fancy. Like a weird pick and mix for gross men.

That's what leads to these strange fixations and fetishes for things imo.

It needs banned. It's rotting mens brains and many of them clearly aren't able to manage it responsibly.

Oh, yeah. I've had a guy freak out about my natural pubic hair - but only after the fact, revealingly enough. Apparently, he had never seen such a thing! 🙄And this was an "alternative" guy with waist-length hair, so you might think he'd be a bit more open to not conforming to the prescribed norm!

He's lying about the reason for wanting you to send him the pic. He wanted wank fodder and would enjoy the additional power of using a successful "prove me wrong" line to get you to send him nudes. Sadly a lot of women are so concerned about what men think of their bodies that many would have fallen for it.

Exactly!

No,it has happened to me. Many years ago. A great turn off.

maybe he was wanting to check you for any obvious STI's

I have large inner labia and they are gorgeous. I think it looks like a butterfly. Vulvas are all different and beautiful.

As a bisexual woman, I've yet to see a vulva I didn't think was beautiful.

I've never had a man comment negatively on mine, in fact lots of men have loved it.

He's an asshole. Ignore him.

He's a doctor so I can only assume he's seen plenty, though I don't know

At this point, this is where you should’ve said ‘ah you’re a doctor, well so am I. Pull your pants down then and let’s see what you’ve got… ah yes, definitely a severe case of smallcox!’ 😆

Very weird comment! I don't think make or female genitals are attractive but fortunately you fancy the person, not their genitals.

This.

Although- to be fair- we all have our preferences.
Could have phrased it differently though.

Stay away from any man who says things like this. I’m pretty sure that this is an incel/redpill idea that a woman’s anatomy changes the more men she sleeps with. It’s absolute nonsense, I’ve squeezed 3 kids out of mine and it looks the same.

This is really weird!! Can't decide if it's the strange way they do tv dating programmes naked these days or if he's wanting to record you and sell it or something ... whatever it is I think you're better off telling him to piss off!

Why did the vagina cross the road anyway?

Yes, that’s really disgusting, in fact blindingly arrogant, not just saying that but actually wanting to check it out before committing himself to a shag!

I wish men like him would keep away from meficine.

A guy I used to work with said his girlfriends looked like a ripped out fireplace 😧 and another one like an explosion at the deli counter. 🙂

He sounds vile. How absolutely disgusting to make a comment like that.
And a bit weird for a doctor to ask to see yours just out of interest.
Odd bloke.

I don't know why, but this image keeps springing to mind this afternoon.

it would never occur to be that stretch marks would be a 'problem' for men?

in a discussion about FGM, a man once told me it was preferable because a lot of women are 'raggedy'.