OK this is a weird one but has anyone else noticed a shift where men are not kissing till like 3 dates in now?
And, last time I dated I also noticed, basic polite compliments of 'you look nice' seemed to have vanished too (que paranoia xD).
It just seems so different from a decade ago. Maybe because I'm getting older. But I also wondered if it's just because times have changed.
I'm finding IM the one who wants to be tactile on dates now but worried about freaking THEM out.
Like I think because I've been approaching things in the manner of just wanting to go out, do a little drinks and a bit of snogging and see where things go. I'm not just looking for short term but, I'd like to sample a little, see if there's good chemistry.
But it's like men have become repressed!
Either that or I've become scary xD
Just wondered if anyone else was noticing similar.