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New partner uses foul language during sex

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Cynthia1957 · 21/03/2024 14:44

Feel a bit embarrassed sharing this but wouldn't feel comfortable speaking to friends about it.
Have a relatively new partner (6 months). All is good. But during sex he says the foulest words, especially when he climaxes. He also calls me some very disgusting names.
Is this normal? I'm not that experienced and I've never heard of it before.

OP posts:
AlmostAJillSandwich · 24/03/2024 19:33

The minute someone called me a slut or a whore, i'd withdraw the consent to sex and tell them to stop and get off me right now, whilst physically pushing them off.
I don't care if it's a turn on for them, i will not be insulted like that, and if they don't stop when i tell them to, i'd make it damn clear i'm going to report them.

I'm sorry this has happened to you, and realise you were shocked into letting him finish at the time, but i really wouldn't feel safe physically with someone so verbally agressive not getting physically agressive or forcing something i didn't want down the line.

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