Husband annoying about my period

[suzycy34]

So husband always wants to know when my period is and how long it going to last, and never believes when i say it’s still ongoing , he always has to feel my trousers to see if im wearing a pad or not , or if I just making excuses as he says to not have sex , it’s becoming really annoying he’s asked about 5 times today already if I’m still wearing a pad . I say I am but he doesn’t believe me and I said what sort of person asks are you still wearing it or not , getting sick of the contast questions and he trying to feel if Im wearing pad or not , if I say anything he just huffs and feels sorry for himself.

Yuk!

Why are you with someone who clearly sees you only as a sex 'toy'?

ewww

I'd punch him in the throat and ask him if he's still breathing oxygen

What. The. Fuck.

Ex husband to be? This is actual abuse.

Wtf!
Dump him!
That's sleazy and actually controlling behaviour!

Yep, sure does

I cannot believe that any woman's self esteem is so low that she would stay with a pig like this.

Please explain to him that whenever he does this coercive, deeply unsexy behaviour that gives him at minimum another day to wait and is likely to put you off permanently. You don’t need an excuse not to shag him. You can just choose not to.

Yuck yuck yuck
you deserve better, how can you bear to have sex with this idiot?

I'd be on my period everyday of the year if I was stuck with someone like this.

5 times in one day? And groping you to see if you're still wearing a pad as he doesn't believe you? And thinks you're making excuses to not have sex? And then pouting?? Is your husband 15??? This is surely not a grown man. You need to sit him down and have a very serious conversation about this behaviour. I would find this more than annoying (more like relationship ending)

Dear god. Are you serious?

Tell him never ever ever to do that again

And I'm guessing you are just going to accept this and do nothing about it?

That is vile OP

Wrong all kinds of wrong.
you need to explain and stick to some firm boundaries if your not into period sex.
when did this VERY ABNORMAL bevavior start?

Repulsiveness aside this is cohesive behaviour OP - he needs to cut it out

he always has to feel my trousers to see if im wearing a pad or not

Please be a troll, please be a troll…

If not, totally fucking horrified…

Don't joke (day 24. Ain't peri a gift?)

But yes, I would be unimpressed with him and my period might well end up lasting longer than reality.

No not a troll . It’s all true

Leave him.

How can you be attracted to someone like that? He's disgusting.

Get rid of him x

Fuck. My. Life.

This is grim- feeling for a sanitary pad? Urgh.

I had a smear test yesterday, came home feeling a bit battered, DH's only response was "which take away am I collecting from and do you want more wine?" Certainly not groping to see if I'm wearing anything due to bleeding.

This is so grim. Why on earth are you putting up with it OP. Tell him to fuck off and that you’ll decide when you have sex, not him. What a massive creep!