Husband annoying about my period

[suzycy34]

So husband always wants to know when my period is and how long it going to last, and never believes when i say it’s still ongoing , he always has to feel my trousers to see if im wearing a pad or not , or if I just making excuses as he says to not have sex , it’s becoming really annoying he’s asked about 5 times today already if I’m still wearing a pad . I say I am but he doesn’t believe me and I said what sort of person asks are you still wearing it or not , getting sick of the contast questions and he trying to feel if Im wearing pad or not , if I say anything he just huffs and feels sorry for himself.

You need to make plans to leave this abusive 'man'.

He's mistaking you for an inflatable sex doll.

I'm serious. Give yourself six weeks and be out and free of this abuse by that time.
Start planning today.

Don't engage any more with him if he does this to you - tell him once that his pestering and groping are completely unacceptable to you and from then on give him a cold, hard stare and the silent treatment.

I haven't read all of the replies but this is absolutely disgusting.

Disgusting behaviour

This is the kind of thing my sex obsessed ex used to do. I'd have to prove I was still on my period. It was soul destroying and I didn't realise how abusive it was at the time.

Op nip this is the bud quickly and refuse to let him do this. I'd even go as far as showing him this thread so he can read how disgusted everyone in in the replies x

It's time to call a screeching halt to this nonsense.

What the fuck? Why are you tolerating this shit? I would have flipped my lid and told him to fuck off by now

How awful. I couldn’t have sex with that man, I’d just be revolted, so it would be pretty immaterial if I had my period or not. What a pig.

Like a pp, I'm curious to know what happens if you say no when you're not on your period?

Does he do anything else that is physically and emotionally abusive? I can't believe this kind of behaviour is isolated...

Keep asking him if he’s had a shit yet cos you want to clean the toilet

This is abuse. Ltb.

Why on earth are you putting up with this abuse ? Find your self respect and get rid of him.

That is vile, and like others have said, abusive and controlling behaviour.

Does he make you have sex every day usually?

I would be very tempted to whack him round the face with a used towel

Reported

He”ll just huff and feel sorry for himself

This is domestic abuse.

Does he coerce you into sex you don't want?

Is he abusive in other ways.

You should speak to domestic abuse experts at women's aid etc so you can understand that this isnt ok.

Also read Lundy Bancroft - why does he do that.

And try to get a referral for the freedom program.

DO NOT show him this thread.

The opinions of women do not matter to him.

I'd be tempted to feed him with laxatives 24/7 for a week in every four. Not the same as a period, obviously, but would curb his need for sex once a month.

Maybe put each soiled pad in his lap every time you change - or rub his face in it.

It's not often I get really angry reading posts here, but this has just made want to kick the OPs partner in the balls. What a fucking shit he is.

This !!

The man is an ape, and if he's repeatedly jamming his hand between your legs when you don't want to be touched it's sexual assault, regardless of whether you're married or not. What benefit can you possibly derive from being with such a throwback of a man? Sounds like how bloody Fred West used to carry on.

I feel sick reading this. Honestly.
this is abusive.
How fucking dare he touch you.
it is not his god given right to touch you, to demand to know if your on your period or his god given right to sex.

not only is it abusive it is a sure fire way to make you never want to have sex again.

id bet this is the tip of the iceberg

Blood hell.

He can get in the bin.

Just when you think you’ve heard it all !

OP you need to get rid of him pronto 💐

He'll feel sorrier if you knee him in the nads, which is what I'd do. He's treating you like an inflatable doll.