Husband annoying about my period

[suzycy34]

So husband always wants to know when my period is and how long it going to last, and never believes when i say it’s still ongoing , he always has to feel my trousers to see if im wearing a pad or not , or if I just making excuses as he says to not have sex , it’s becoming really annoying he’s asked about 5 times today already if I’m still wearing a pad . I say I am but he doesn’t believe me and I said what sort of person asks are you still wearing it or not , getting sick of the contast questions and he trying to feel if Im wearing pad or not , if I say anything he just huffs and feels sorry for himself.

He sounds like a pervert!

Oh my actual God…

Just seems to have started the last few months and I’ve said today you e already asked 5 times and he just says the more you say that the more I’m just going to keep asking

Tell him to fuck off???

So reply with the more you keep asking the more I'm going to say yes I'm still wearing a pad.

So he’s a sex pest who won’t take no for an answer. Who wants to be with a man like that. Kick him into touch and tell him no-one wants a misogynist pervert in their life.

You don't need an excuse not to have sex with him. And personally, I never would again.

The fact people are wondering troll should tell you how fucked up this is OP

Have you actually told him to fuck off? Tell him he asks you again, he won't be getting laid again. Period or not.

You are in an abusive relationship. There is help available to extract yourself. Nobody should be treated like this.

I would be getting a divorce. I'm.not joking at all. He is abusive and this will escalate.

Even when I didn’t have my period, he would not be getting anywhere near me. Why are you with such a fucking pig?

Take it off and slap him across the face with it.

What he's doing is so disturbing and your lack of outrage is so sad that I actually wish you were trolling because the alternative is that you are with a man who is clearly so foul but you have to actually ask other people if you are being reasonable to think he's wrong. That's how much he's fucked you up.

Dear god thats disgusting!! how fucking dare he. Get some self esteem and leave this prick!

Wtf

This isn't just annoying g it's abusive!

Has anything else changed in the last few months?

Just started the last few months. How long have you been with him? I can't believe that he's gone from an ordinary guy into a controlling pervert with a Victorian world view of women over night. There must have been other behaviours or attitudes. Either way, report him for harrassment and get him out of your life.

And what if you were using tampons or a mooncup.

Call women's aid when he's out
Make a plan to leave

I wound boot him in the balls if he did that to me. Vile pig.

next will be him asking to check your pad. Stop it now.

he’s a form of contraception in himself.

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Why are you staying with a man who doesn't like you OP?

What a charmer. I wouldn’t be staying with him since he clearly thinks you’re a liar

So he admits he's asking you repeatedly just to be an arse? He's quite fucked up really

There's a difference between tough love and just being a twunt.