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What is this on my DP's back? Done by another woman?

181 replies

RainbowAura · 03/12/2020 22:28

What is this? Anyone with any knowledge? Dentist etc? Suspect possibility of love bite. Left by other woman on purpose? He's prone to binge-drinking and falling over. How likely is it there's an innocent explanation?

What is this on my DP's back? Done by another woman?
OP posts:
NewNameNewJob · 03/12/2020 22:29

What does he say it is?

catnoir1 · 03/12/2020 22:29

Looks like he's landed on something

SlightDrizzle · 03/12/2020 22:30

Seriously? Your husband has a bruise on his back and you immediately think it’s a love bite???

PlanDeRaccordement · 03/12/2020 22:30

It’s a bruise. Looks like from falling into a corner of something.

Harrykanesrightsock · 03/12/2020 22:31

Well I would say that’s a love bite.

Plastichearts · 03/12/2020 22:31

Where on the back is it?

Changedmynameagain1 · 03/12/2020 22:31

Looks like he’s fallen over and landed on something hard. Doesn’t look like a love bite 🙈

tenlittlecygnets · 03/12/2020 22:32

If you see a bruise on your h's back and immediately assume it's a love bite, what's the point of your relationship? There's no trust there.

TheLadyOfShallnott · 03/12/2020 22:32

It doesn’t look bitey to me. It looks as though he has fallen against something. I can see lines in it.

For you to think other woman - do you have reason to suspect something? Are you ok?

KarmaNoMore · 03/12/2020 22:32

That’s just a bruise.

hollieberrie · 03/12/2020 22:32

Love bite! Definitely

myneighboursarerude · 03/12/2020 22:32

That’s a bad bang on the corner of a table, why is the first thought he’s cheating?

Does he have form OP?

CoffeeRunner · 03/12/2020 22:33

Well it could be a love bite. Could also be a bruise from a million things.

What’s the backstory that makes you jump to the love bite conclusion?

pompey38 · 03/12/2020 22:33

That’s not a bite , that’s a bruise, it seems that he’s prone to more than binge drinking if you’re getting suspicious so quick

saraclara · 03/12/2020 22:33

It's a bruise

Ritascornershop · 03/12/2020 22:34

Isn’t that an equally bad situation if he’s prone to binge drinking and falling over?

Gazelda · 03/12/2020 22:34

Is there reason to suspect him of infidelity?
Does he know you've posted this on MN?

Sarahlou63 · 03/12/2020 22:36

Did you tell him you were taking a photo of his bruise to post on MN?

Closetbeanmuncher · 03/12/2020 22:36

He's prone to binge-drinking and falling over

Sounds like a keeper 😳....

Back to the question it looks like the sort of mark you get if you trap the skin.

InTheNightWeWillWish · 03/12/2020 22:37

I often get identical marks on my thigh. It’s usually because I’ve walked into the corner of the bed frame.

If it is a love bite, it’s in a bit of an odd place...

AnyFucker · 03/12/2020 22:38

It's the face of Our Lord Jesus

Hallelujah !

draughtycatflap · 03/12/2020 22:38

Could it have occurred during a clumsy reverse cowgirl dismount from his lover’s knob?

HeeeeyDuggee · 03/12/2020 22:40

Looks like a bruise I got on my side after walking into a table once

unplugged · 03/12/2020 22:41

How long has it been there...? You'll soon know if it begins going through the blue / yellow bruising stages.. x

Tenyearsgone · 03/12/2020 22:41

Does he know you took a picture?