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Tyedye...ive left him

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tyeanddye · 24/06/2007 21:35

He assaulted me and ive left him at last.crying alot but ok.

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tyeanddye · 25/08/2007 11:40

its hard,but DS1 got 11 gcse"s,eight at A-grade,so were celebrating that too!

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Pinkchampagne · 25/08/2007 11:42

Excellent! Well done to your DS!

tyeanddye · 27/08/2007 10:51

God ex is a pig,he shouted at me yesterday for being depressed,and he keeps trying to hug me etc,and is basically alternating between verbal abuse and sexual harrassment.

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fransmom · 27/08/2007 20:20

is that because he doesn't understand it or because he is a horrid person anyway?

tye, please report him for harrassment sweetheart. there are laws in place about this. (have posted on your new thread as well btw )

tyeanddye · 28/08/2007 11:29

Im going to give him an ultimatum,he cannot touch me like that,its revolting.

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fransmom · 28/08/2007 21:32

would you be bale to say that through your solicitor so you don't have to say it to him face to face? i'm sorry if i said that before but my memory is crap today.

(((((((((((((((tye)))))))))))))))))

tyeanddye · 30/08/2007 13:54

Im going to email him about it

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fransmom · 30/08/2007 22:08

am thinking of you and wishing you the strength that you need xxxx

tyeanddye · 31/08/2007 17:59

Thanks FM,youre a brick,much appreciated...its really tough at the moment,our ds is beside himself over not seeing his dad,and living with him etc...

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fransmom · 02/09/2007 00:56

that's ok sweetheart, i may not have the right words but i am glad it helps you knowing there is someone here who will listen to you xxx

tyeanddye · 03/09/2007 09:33

He had a go at me for finishing dd"s banana,as the chickens could have had it.Says foods costing him a fortune.I used to buy it.
He works,i dont,ive just bought his kids shoes at a cost of 60 quid,no offer of cash.
I am also still paying the phone,electric,council tax,water etc....if i dont,he will have half the proceeds from the house instead of the agreed settlement,because he "can"legally.
Its all controlling behaviour,he even rang me whilst driving to bollock me for answering my mob,on the move,until i pointed out i have bluetooth!
He hasnt given me any money for kids,not a penny,and demands i contribute to the rpair bill for my car...which he is driving.

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fransmom · 03/09/2007 12:52

oh gawd tye where is he at

sweetheart, i really think (if you're not already) that you need to keep a diary of his comments to you and even print off threads from mn if you can (if you can't i shall for you and send them on - i managed to finally get my printer up and running (after dragging my feet!) and it actually works!!!). iw ould also advise you tos ee cab and see if they can give you nay help and maybe put me right too on what i've been saying to you as i'm not legally trained (what a bugger).

did you get your (virtual!) present from your other thread???

tyeanddye · 04/09/2007 12:18

Thanks for flowers fm,youre a pet.
I have a solicitor,who warns him,but he denies it all,seems to believe it himself,and gets angrier...says my lawyers a "pitbull"and im an "abusive bitch"almost funny.

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tyeanddye · 04/09/2007 12:19

thread print a good idea,cept its still in its box..........cat me fm?

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fransmom · 04/09/2007 20:18

will do when i renewed my thingy bob

fransmom · 04/09/2007 20:38

renewed cat thingy

fransmom · 04/09/2007 20:39

and cat'd

((((((((((((tye))))))))))))

tyeanddye · 04/09/2007 22:11

got it FM,have added you on my msn honey,thanks,xx

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fransmom · 05/09/2007 21:19

's ok x

fransmom · 09/09/2007 20:18

hi tye hows youy sweetheart? haven't got msn, where can i get it from? (((((((((((((tye)))))))))))))))) sorry for radio silence xx

tyeanddye · 12/09/2007 12:56

msn.com,xxcontracts exchanged!!!!!!

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