Tyedye...ive left him

[tyeanddye]

He assaulted me and ive left him at last.crying alot but ok.

Hi FM,i thought it was you,or fattiemomma....thanks sweetheart,the frying pan and gloria gaynor was from the other fm,sorry,was a bit pissed!

Thanks babe,xx

oh babe i wish i lived round the corner from you and i could offer a shoulder then and a helping hand perhaps. a pic of a guardian angel herefor you.

hee hee that's ok tye

Thankd fransmom,I have cyber hugs tenfold now,and are they ever essential,x

Im making new menfriends on a dating site which is nice, and no...NO MOUSTACHES IN SIGHT!!!!!!!hes been chucked out by his wife

allegedly.......arf

Hes acting the victim so well,he almost has ME believing him,almost...not quite!no wonder mumsy thinks im a bitch,silly cow!

hey, tyeanddye, have worried about you from afar....(professional cyber-shy person that i am). Hope you are okay but also hope, and am sure, you can get through this...(normal hugs)(!)

Keep strong, Tyedye.

hes being mr piggy again,telling me i stink today

hes being mr piggy again,telling me i stink today

Even knowing it's a load of rubbish doesn't stop that sort of thing being upsetting. You know you don't stink and he can't really think you do, it's just a nursery level insult, but somehow it still makes a person feel bad. Hope you get an injunction soon to keep him away from you.

ive had all sorts of aggro,was just reading Amazon reviews of books about domestic violence...my solicitor thimks hes quite bad....very bad actually,but exe dp says i am a liar....but cries and tries to hold me,after rummaging in my car for "evidence"

staring at papers.dd,s report,quizzing me re rubbish,as to what i might have eaten
in my car...mocking my new hair colour...cos i look different.which was the point.
yet hes so sad.im not sympathetic...not THAT thick,but interesting how he can have been bred to behave in such a way,his mums a criminal as far as im concerned...she even turned on her daughter when she fell out with the other brother.

My son,at 15,lost his digital camera,we knew it was his "stepdad" I had recently had to intervene physically to prevent him assaulting my son.
An hour ago,i found it,stamped on and smashed,hidden in the belongings i was removing from the house.
I feel sick,depressed,angry...and quite ill.
We have mediation tomorrow,shall i attend ,having said nothing,and just chuck it on the table?see his reaction?
My son,was 15 at the time,had recently been on spanish exchange,and is keen on photography,theres hundreds of pictures in it he thought he had lost.
He had searched for it for months.

Tyedye - what a truly horrible thing to have done.

I don't think you should do anything over-dramatic in mediation - it isn't about having arguments in front of the mediator. If he denies ever being abusive, you could offer a list of calm factual reports, which include the camera - and have the camera with you as evidence. But if you use mediation as an arena to confront him, you won't get very far and you may make yourself look vindictive.

tye >>>>>>>>>huge hugs

I know that Blu....i would quite rightly be put in my place in that setting for doing a stunt like that....im so sad for my son,who after months of living away from the arse..is learning to laugh again,has decided NOT to go live with HIS dad....and we are learning to know each other on a very different basis.My humour and vitality are creeping back,as are my sons.
But,,MAN im PISSED OFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ive now locked the gate in preparation for him trying to storm in again to "see kids"on my mothers property.as im "denying"him access again.....

What a nasty thing for him to do to your poor DS's phone. I can totally understand you being upset & angry, but like Blu says, mediation is by no means the place to confront him over this. Mediation is all about reaching amicable decisions without fighting things out in court, and will not work if there is a bad atmosphere to start.

Good luck with it all.

Hi pc,xx
I texted him that i had found the camera,and withstood about twenty calls denying it and swearing etc...so stupid...no-one,and nothing else could have caused that,and he knows it,attack is the best form of defence after all...so im a "bitch "again.
I answered the odd call,saying"why bother?i always knew you had done that...i went through the bins etc when it first disappeared,blahblah"
Hate him.

awww hun I've just seen this thread for the first time

what an arse xx

he will lie to the mediator...and cry again...it doesnt convince anyone though,my sons camera is knackered.

hes emailing me that im mad now,asshole