Tyedye...ive left him

[tyeanddye]

He assaulted me and ive left him at last.crying alot but ok.

Thanks fransmom,what a good idea,i used to do karate!
Yesterday was truly horrible,hes twisting the circumstances of how we first met to make me appear a slag when he met me...after id had 2, 1 yr plus relationships since first long-term broke down!hardly rampant promiscuity,this is from a man who once had sex with three different women in one day!!!Grubby minded pig.
He reduces male/female relations down to "rutting"level,cant believe i was ever with him.

oh dear me. certainly grubby. sorry i can't stay longer at mo i am due back at work now ! byeeeeeeee see you later tho!

ive hit a brick wall today,so tired,keep crying

what happened, tyedye? :hugs LOTS:

i just stopped coping....i have a long fuse,and it ran out,
All his dirty insinuations,as he knows my self-esteem issues about men,made me feel so awful.

tye, don't let him get to you, please. He's trying to put you down because it makes him feel better - he's the one with the self-esteem problem, not you.

oh sweetheart (((((((((((((((((((((((tye))))))))))))))))))))))))

Don't let him get to you, Tyedye - he is just angry because he's lost control & can't handle it.

Hi FM, thanks for your e mail. Sorry I haven't mailed straight back, but boys have been exhausting me!

that's ok nite pc.
tye i will post more when i am not so tired sweetheart. i am sure that things will et beter soon for you xxxxxxxxx

tyedye, what the others said is so right! he is trying to wear you down with nasty things, his evil way to still try to control you. know you are doing the right thing. its ok to get worn out and down, todays a new day and i hope your strength has come back.
have you been in contact with your HV and/or GP for support, someone else to talk to? i cant remember if you said if you've been in touch with Women's Aid or not, (if not, they can sometimes provide counselling, depending on where you are at.)
stay strong and regain your strength as you can, even if little bits at a time. you will get thru this. and one day, you won't even look back.
we're behind you %1000 and more percent. x

His suggestion for improving the situation?a "goodbye shag"

I have a Domestic violence counsellor on my mobile phone.....xxshes fab.

why would he want sex with a whore? thats what he keeps calling me!

Hey, I had that suggestion from the STBXH as well. For old time's sake sort of thing. I made a polite reply on the lines of no way if he were the last man on earth with a paper bag over his head. Mind you mine never did half as awful things as your ex, nor call me such dreadful words to my face.

How vile! I hope you told him right where to go!!

I said no

Idiotic woman-hating,dick obsessed,narcissisic,paranoid,controlling,abusive prick......

was that a bit strong?

I said something along the lines of..."Dont even go there"thought of several put downs since of course...then i pointed out he was late for work.

good for you in telling him where to go!

it certianly wasn't too strong, it sounds like you were describing him to a "t" as my mom would say!

nope not at all.

just read the whole thread and I'm amazed that you've put up with as much as you have. Life will get easier and you will be happier

What a fuckwit

When I found out my first husband had cheated on me, we had a massive row. Then I walked up to him, really slowly, grabbed the front of his shirt and snogged him for England. Then I pulled back, looked him in the eye and said 'that's the last f*ing time you will EVER get to do that' and walked out of the room! LOL

I have,and continue to put up with as much as i have due to brainwashing plain and simple,its almost like kidnap victims who become dependent on their captors.
Hes assaulted me sexually before.