Tyedye...ive left him

[tyeanddye]

He assaulted me and ive left him at last.crying alot but ok.

Its rape when they shout at you til you put out isnt it?morally?...and worse.
Hes been really bad before on that front

oh sweetheart

Thank goodness you're away from him now, tyedye.

LOL at LBT's goodbye kiss! Good on you - I bet that gave your ex husband a shock!!

Are you still having mediation, Tyedye?

tye have you reported him to police and have they been much help?

those episodes were years ago,and not provable,because i "consented" under duress,well,last year was the last time he tried that and i walked out.

tyedye, i'm a bit behind, you're not in the same house as him now, right? it may not be provable assault, but its certainly sexual abuse. i'm glad you have a domestic violence counsellor.
please stay strong. we're here for you. (wish could be in person!)

i live at my mums ,xx

nods that what i thought after i wrote that. ok good.

Myhouse should exchange today!!mixed feelings....

Wow, that was quick, Tyedye! Mine took ages

It is normal to have mixed feelings btw. I was a right wreck of emotions as my exchange date approached.

we sold at the end of may

we sold at the end of may

we sold at the end of may

excellent news on such a quick exchange!
this is ONE step closer to your new beginning!

my dd,14,has just announced she intends to live with her dad,over a hundred miles away,he wanted her aborted,and passes her off during access to my ex-bestfriend,who he was shagging whilst with me,in my bed,whilst i was at work.
im devastatated

oh sweetheart maybe it's just a feeling of the grass being greener kind of thing? she ma be quite definite about wanting to move now, once she's actually there and ahs been living there for a few months, she may well change her mind.

(((((((((tye)))))))))

atm , she may only see (from her pov) the (sorry)good side of her dad, but once the gloss has worn off, for both sides, she may well change her mind back to wanting to live with you?

all this is mentioned with not knowing your dd btw

Tbh,first time ive felt like cutting for ages,cant even look at her.

hate myself..couldnt even say goodnight to her.

hugged her in bed,but i feel so bad,so depressed,this is the morning where we sit our little kids down and tell them mummy anddaddy arent going to live together again,
very very low,wish i hadnt had kids atm,

Oh tyedye She may change her mind.

It could be attention seeking,my ds,age 16 was going to go live with him...and eventually changed his mind.He got lots of attention!!

Oh Tyedye, that must have been very hard for you.
My DS1 came out with the "I want to live with daddy" line just before our separation & I was very upset, but I think they just feel mighty confused & all over the place at times like this.
Your DD is probably just feeling very all over the place, and may change her mind again in no time.
Glad you both had a hug in the end.x