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As above was away on a hen weekend for someone I thought was a very good friend.
We've been friends for over 20 years and I've been her someone to call at 3am person and I thought she was mine.
The weekend was self catering which I was told by the Maid of Honour (a whole other story) that I was sorting out the food for 20 ish people.
Which I did happily, I spent the whole weekend running after sorting cooking cleaning up etc. And did it all on a very tight budget.
Just before we left the location I said ok I'm having a swim, and then packing and would someone mind clearing up after the breakfast?
Bearing in mind there was 20 of them…
Now I had cooked and sorted for 20 people for 6 meals with no help. I did ask for help and some of them wafted in and out doing nothing of substance.
So wedding has been & done and 'friend' asked to meet up. So we go for a meal and I'm told how horrible I was by leaving them to clean up on the last morning.
How awful I was by not joining in games etc. I did point I was either clearing up or cooking.
I did try to join In but MOH was very obvious in excluding me.
But no and apparently the MOH was very upset & stressed by my behaviour…
So we're in the main course of the meal, she was talking at me for an hour and I say you know what, I worked my arse off for weeks before the weekend, I was first up last to bed on the weekend.
You behaved appallingly to me on said weekend, as did your 'friends'. I assumed when you invited me for this meal it was to apologise, clearly not, so fuck off. And left. We've not spoken since. (I.e. A few months)
Well I did get an enraged text about leaving her with the bill- I'd had pasta & and sparkling water and left a £20…
Ok vent over.
The thing is I've woken up this am (am away with OH so was a late night
) to see she's called 3 times over night.
My instinct is to call, OH has said don't you dare. I hate to admit it but he's right isn't he…
But what's if she's in real trouble?