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i don't know if i can talk about it here?

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 21:05

hello everyone,
i am new here and i don't know,i am not sure if i can talk about it here? i am 20 weeks and 4 days pregnant
,but i am having problems in my life right now,difficulties,complications SadConfused

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Pancakeflipper · 31/12/2015 21:07

You can chat about what you'd like here. I am sure someone could relate to whatever is troubling you and help.

Thurlow · 31/12/2015 21:13

You can talk about anything here. What would you like to say?

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 21:15

ok,thank you,i am having difficulties,complications in my life right now,i had a terrible argument with my mother this week,before New Years Eve day and since then i don't talk to her much anymore,my life story is really long,terrible,painful,upsetting,embarrassing Sadi just had a terrible conversation with my baby's father and when i saw what he wrote about me on fb,i have blocked him thereAngrySad

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 21:18

ok,thank you,i am having difficulties,complications in my life right now,i had a terrible argument with my mother this week,before New Years Eve day and since then i don't talk to her much anymore,my life story is really long,terrible,painful,upsetting,embarrassing i just had a terrible conversation with my baby's father and when i saw what he wrote about me on fb,i have blocked him there AngrySad

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Thurlow · 31/12/2015 21:22

I'm sorry you rowed with your mum. Are you with anyone at the moment? Is there anything specific you wanted to talk about, or jus some company?

I've got a feeling that this board (Other subjects) might not be the best board to get a response on. Would you like MN to move it to somewhere a little busier?

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 21:25

It is ok,no,i am not with someone right now,i don't mind dear,but where? can you tell me? explain to me? because i am confusedSad

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RJnomore1 · 31/12/2015 21:28

I think what thurlow means is this topic isn't used very much. More people will see if you post in chat or relationships.

Sorry you are having a bad time just now.

MazzleDazzle · 31/12/2015 21:29

That's rubbish that things aren't going well for you just now.

Do you usually get along with your mum?

Thurlow · 31/12/2015 21:29

Sorry, I wrote that too quick. There are boards on Pregnancy, Relationships, Chat or even Mental Health, and they are busier than this one - more people to chat to? This is a rather quiet board, that's all. You can Report your post and ask MN to move it.

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 21:32

Ok,thank you dear,i will do something about this post,hmmmmm.......well my relationship hasn't been good at all with my mother,i could say,honestly,seriously Sad

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Thurlow · 31/12/2015 21:34

So you have any other contact with your ex than FB?

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 21:36

I don't talk to him,he is not my ex,i could say,he is just my friend and he got me pregnant without me even knowing,realising that AngrySad he knows my mobile nr only

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RJnomore1 · 31/12/2015 21:42

Can you explain how he got you pregnant without you knowing?

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 21:47

hmmmmmm.........Sad oh god,if only i could remember that,you see i am suffering from sexual assault trauma,which happened this year at the end of July,it was my ex-boyfriend who did it in my mother's place SadConfused my memory is really horrible,i am really sorry,

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Thurlow · 31/12/2015 21:48

And your friend took advantage of you?Sad

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 21:50

hmmmmmm......... oh god,if only i could remember that,you see i am suffering from sexual assault trauma,which happened this year at the end of July,it was my ex-boyfriend who did it in my mother's place my memory is really horrible,i am really sorry Sad he was being nice and he was treating me like a princess,but when i realised that he didn't have no condom,i should've say something,but i didn't,i think,i don't rememberSad i am so sorry

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RJnomore1 · 31/12/2015 21:52

No no don't apologise. I wasn't sure what you meant.

Thats awful. Have you spoken to anyone about it? Midwife, police, counsellors, anyone who can help you deal with it?

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 21:52

Yes,you could say that but because i am suffering from a terrible memory,i am not convinced that he did that,god if only i could remember that Sad After him,there were so much happening in my life that my memory gone down much Sad

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 21:54

No,i haven't,thats the thing Sad I should start loving myself more and be more concerned about myself,he is my baby's father and he's done it to me,god AngrySad

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QOD · 31/12/2015 21:56

Do you havé someone supporting you? Friends? Other family?

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 21:59

hmmmm........no,not really SadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSad I had a terrible argument with my mother this week since then we don't talk to each anymore,yes,i did mention that before Sad

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RJnomore1 · 31/12/2015 22:01

Well there's always someone on here to talk to.

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 22:03

Ok,thank you so muchThanks

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RJnomore1 · 31/12/2015 22:05

You sound like you need a massive hug. What can we do to help?

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panele01 · 31/12/2015 22:06

Thurlow? if this post really needs to be moved,so i have to contact someone in here? i am really sorry,i am confused,i didn't quite understand SadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSadSad

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